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Jernieka - posted on 10/12/2009 ( 10 moms have responded )

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Ja'Nas want his ear pierced b/c his godbrother has one? Ja'Nas is only 3 so what should i do?

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Lyssa - posted on 10/12/2009

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I wouldn't. What if in a few years he doesnt like it anymore? Money wasted. Not a lot but still. And I've alwys seen ear piercing as something like a 'right of passage', that why I WONT pierce my kids ears till they hit 13 and ask for it and can prove they can take care of it (keep it clean ect)

Claire - posted on 10/12/2009

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they say the age is 2 to "allow" piercing. just sit him on ur knee when he does get it so he can have plenty hugs. i am going to have my sons done for his 3rd birthday.

Breihana - posted on 10/12/2009

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I think he is the right age to do it. If he wants it do it. I'm goin to get my 4yr old son's ear pierced.

Cristi - posted on 10/12/2009

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If you dont have a problem with it then do it. He is ur child and it is upto u wat to do.

Leyda - posted on 10/12/2009

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I ALSO WENT THRU THE SAME THING WELL KINDA IT WAS OPPOSITE HIS BIOLOGICAL DAD WANTED TO PIERCE MY SON'S EARS BUT I HAD TOLD HIM THAT WHEN MYY SON GREW UP AND ASKED FOR IT IF HE WAS WILLLING TO PUT UP WITH THE PAIN THEN I WOULD LET HIM BUT NOW I THINK DIFFERENTLY I AM MARRIED TO SOMEONE ELSE AND WE ARE CHRISTIANS AND NOW THAT I KNOW WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS I THINK DIFFERENTLY. IF MY SON ESKS ME TO HAVE HIS EARS PIERCED I WILL SAY NO BUT I WILL SHOW HIM WHY( LOOK IT UP IN THE BIBLE) THEN I WILL GIVE HIM THE CHOICE IF HE STILL WOULD WANT TO DO IT THEN HE WILL BE HELD RESPONSIBLE FOR HIS OWN ACTIONS. I THINK THAT YOUR CHILDREN BECOME WHO YOU RAISE THEM TO BE. AND SOMETIMES WHEN PARENTS ALLOW CERTAIN THINGS IT TENDS TO PLAY A BIG ROLE ON WHO THEY WILL BECOME IN THE FUTURE

Ashley - posted on 10/12/2009

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i completely agree. it always come down to your decision. you know whats best for your children.

Ashley - posted on 10/12/2009

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OHHH i c haha well maybe you should do what you think for your son...there will be alot of things people wont approve of but thats where you being mommy comes into play..its your choice no matter what!

Jernieka - posted on 10/12/2009

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I dnt have a problem with it. Ja'Nas is a boy and my grandmother would go crazy.

Ashley - posted on 10/12/2009

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If you have no problem with it then go for it. Alot of 3 and 4 month olds have ear piercings. Its legal and perfectly normal!!

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