SINGLE 24YR OLD MOM LOOKING FOR NEW FRIENDS

Sarah - posted on 03/08/2009 ( 23 moms have responded )

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hi my name is sarah .. im 24 years old from new york.. i have a 3 year daugther named liliana.. im looking to buold new friendship with people who will except me for me and that i have a daugther.. when i found out i was having a child at 21 all my "friends" just got up and left me and so did he father so im pretty lonely.

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Kimberly De Leon - posted on 08/19/2014

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Hello Sarah,
My name is Kimberly. I'm from Tx & have a common law marriage, but I have plenty of friends that were pregnant when I wasn't. To me it didn't bother me, they would bring there kids anywhere & everywhere we hung out. When their other friends would always tell them to "find a babysitter so we can go out!" But we can talk anytime (:

Mejiaashley71 - posted on 08/18/2014

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It can be hard girl Im 23 and married, but when I had my daughter all my so called friends stopped talking to me and never wanted to be around me or my daughter. So I know exactly where you are coming from. I would be happy to be your friend :) Message me anytime.

Michelle - posted on 10/28/2013

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Hi Sarah! My name is Michelle. I am 26 years old and from NJ. I have a 5 month old baby boy and am married to his father. I do not have many friends as I do not like to sit and gossip about others. I also never got into the party scene so I was put off my many friends. I am always looking for a good "girl friend." Feel free to inbox me or add me to your circle and we can keep in touch!

Marcie - posted on 12/11/2012

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hey my name is marcie and 20 years old and my son is 1 years old his name is donavin im from baltimore md im new on here and im looking for some new friends as well because the friends i use to up & left me when i got pregnant and some of them just dont talk to me anymore so all i really have is just my man and my family and my son but im looking for new friends =].

Eswari - posted on 12/10/2012

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Hi Sarah. I'm Eswari from India. I have 1 daughter (4 month old). Her name Mangai. I wanna be a good friends with us. I dont know about u.

Tammy - posted on 03/13/2009

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Hi sarah! I totally understand where you are coming from. I am 24 and have a 2 1/2 year old little girl.  All my friends have pretty much faded out since I had her. If you ever need to talk feel free to message me. Where in NY are you from?

Tammy - posted on 03/13/2009

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Hi Liliana. I know exactly how you feel. I'm pretty much in the same situation.  I'm 24 with a 2 1/2 year old. It 's really hard to find people that are ok with a little girl tagging along everywhere.  Where in NY are you from?

Amanda - posted on 03/13/2009

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hey, im a young mom as well not from new york but if u ever wanna chat just add me to your circle im here for ya....

Sami-jo - posted on 03/12/2009

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aww thats not nice too hear that people did that,,
im sami im 22 have a daughter im from engaland
ever wanna chat im here x

Charmaine - posted on 03/12/2009

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Hi im charmaine ,I have 2 children girl 3 and her name is Shawnah and a boy 1 and hie name is Ashley and they are hard work lol...im 27 and live in London England.

Sharleen - posted on 03/12/2009

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Hi Sarah. My name is Sharleen and I was in a very similar situation as you. When I got pregnant at 20 all of my friends decided that partying was more important than our friendship and they all turned around and went about their lives as if I didn't exist. It's nice to hear that I'm not the only one.  I have a 4 year old daughter named Tru and I wouldn't give her up for the whole world. It's so hard to find true friends that will except you for who you are and the responsibility  of having a child. I thought I would try this mom circle to try and connect with other moms my age and I'm glad I read about you. I wish you lots of luck with you girl and just know that true people who love you and your daughter are bound to show themselves to you and want to be a part of your life. Drop me a line anytime Sarah :)

Katie - posted on 03/12/2009

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hi i am from milnsbridge in huddersfield, i know what u mean about your friends leaving you mine were the same. i have a gorgeous 8 month old son named Cory, my name is Katie i am 22 and live with my boyfriend Dean.

Rebecca - posted on 03/09/2009

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hi sarah my name is becky, im 23 and have a 5 1/2 year old daughter.  I myself was 17 when i had my lil girl.  For me, my "friends" left right about the time i had to leave high school because of my pregnancy.  I think they felt having a friend with a baby would force them to grow up too.  and they were'nt ready for that.   it was a big decision to leave my daughters father almost two years ago and try things on my own, especially since he as the only "adult" friend i had at the time, but because of his lifestyle, i had no choice.  It wasn't easy, and to be  honest, it still isn't.  But its worth it.  i love my daughter so much, and we are both so much happier now.  i started school last summer and am slowly making new friends.  most of my friends are moms too. they are the ones who understand when im stressed out ready to pull my hair out, or if im crying because im exhausted.  Also, i am very pleased to say, i met a wonderful man about 11 months ago, who is great for me, and also for my daughter.  it takes time to make good friends, and its def. not easy. but you'll get there.

Julie - posted on 03/09/2009

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hey im julie i got a daughter who is just  turning 8months old im 26 in april! how u coping with  motherhood! our father is at work he works long hours n then when he comes bk i go too work lol dont really c much of each other but looking after the little one all day by myself is hard sumtimes so kinda know what u are going threw! They arent friends if they dont stick around...

Kayleigh - posted on 03/09/2009

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hi my name is kayleigh i am 21.. i have a little boy named kiaus who is 5months now..his farther did the same just left us... and my friends have gone really distant i do have a few close friends that i still see...but i mostly chat to other mums now!!! its great as i relate to alot of them..and as for being on my own yea its hard but all worth it and i love that my son will dote on me and respect wot i have done for him on my own when he is older... and so should you with your little girl :) its the hardest yet best job in the world bein a mummy ...chat to me any time always here :)

Tammy - posted on 03/09/2009

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hi there sarah my name is tammy im a mother of 3 girls emily marie 6 charlotte jayde 4 and bella rose 18 months i know how you feel as my friends did the same to me when i fell pregnant with my first. im also looking for friendship and looking for people that can except me for who iam so if your interested then im here

Alex - posted on 03/09/2009

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Hi Sarah



 how are you my name is Alex and i have a beautiful little boy named Diesel, he is 3 1/2 months old. We live in Australia 

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