So my husband and i have been married 10 years, but he lacks motivation at home. Work is a different story, he busts his ass. We both work full time, have 4 kikds 13 to 2 , and h doesn't do a thing at home but read and play games.I have trkied to talk to him and when i do he changes and helps for a week or two but then back to the same. Ifeel as though i am the only adult I am 31 he i 37 i feel like i have 5 kids. He is a wonderful father, but I need a partner too. I have to tell him when and what to do and i hate it i am not his mom i am his wife. I also take care of my Dad and Aunt,because of my mom's death and my aunts health. i feel so oberwelmed someone ideas please, i'm sinking.

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Kristen - posted on 11/12/2012

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Maybe the problem is me , maybe i do too much. I care to much . Seriously, can i please get some real response ? I am sinking, I feel so overwelmed.

Kristen - posted on 11/11/2012

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Most of the time when i have doc visits for the family or errons to run and ask for his help with some things he will promise me they will be done and i get home and he is asleep or playing his game. I have told him many occasions if your not gonna do this tell me no and that hurts less than exspecting help and feeling like i've been lie to over and over again.

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