So pretty much the father can runway from a baby? wtf?

Amie - posted on 11/14/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )

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How can the states let these fathers be deadbeats, who never pay child support, never see their children, and the father gets to live his life as if the child never was born. I find this disturbing that the states dont care about this but they wont let the baby be fatherless... well if the father isnt really being a father then why even keep him around. These fathers need to be punished. Its unfair to moms who work their butts off to raise the baby and then work to support the baby by herself, its unfair. No parent should be able to get away scott-free, in the end its the child who suffers and its not fair!

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Kendra - posted on 11/14/2012

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Unfortunately this is a reality and while it's not ideal it is what it is girl. As a parent mom or dad because moms leave also it's a risk you take. Child support helps with the financial part. Trust they are not without punishment eventually it catches up with them and regret is a steep price. Honestly someone who would walk out on his or her son or daughter may actually be doing the child a favor. Whatever pick up your cape put it on and be the great mom you are. Sometimes if the child has a strong male or female role model like an grandpa or uncle or auntie . You can't control people and you only have u at the end of the day . No one is guaranteed my friend lost her sons father to murde, so yeah.

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