sons father wont leave his mom or daughter

Alexis - posted on 02/27/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )




Ive been with my sons father for three years on and off and we just found a yr ago he has another kid with his ex but we always knew there was a possibilty he was the father I accepted it and we built a great relationship with his daughter. Later that year we got pregnant and now havea six month oldbut are broke up. We were doi ggood with our own place and jobs but the he decided it was better to move inwith his mom unti, we could afford a new place again and I could start school. It got so bad and cramped that we had to sleel on the living room floor everynight. I kelt telling him I wanted to get our own place a d start school I couldnt stand living there and knew it wasnt a good living environment for our son. After mknths and months of warning and aski g him to change his ways helping me more money wise parentening wise and as a boyfriend. Meand my son left to live with my dad so I ciuld start school becuase I have no family where me and my son were living just his dads family. I really would like if he came downbere with us till I was done with school but he refuses to leave hismom and daughter. Im so sad and heartbroken for our son I feel like hes less important and doesnt matter tohim. What to do leave him or give in


Michelle - posted on 02/27/2014




Do you want to be living with his mother for the next 5 years or so? If not then you may need to move on. He's decided what's more important to him and at the moment he wants to stay with his mother.
You should make sure you get visitation and child support sorted out ASAP though so your son knows when he will see his dad.

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