Suggestions for getting my kids to be obedient again?

Katie - posted on 09/11/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )




My 6 year old (and my 4 year old, following her lead), are slipping into a habit of ignoring when I call them, and making excuses or refusing when I ask/tell them to do things as simple as putting 3 books back on the bookshelf. I feel like I've tried everything - making it a game, trying to clean with them, rewarding obedience, losing priveleges if they don't do what little is asked of them. I feel like it's gotten really bad, and I've run into a dead end for ideas... Any suggestions???


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What's most important is to react to their actions with punishment. Make sure you not only reward for obedience, but to put your foot down.

Maybe create a list of rules and explain them to them thoroughly. Time outs and spankings are punishments that work well.

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