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Cleaver - posted on 02/02/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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im not sure what to do this morning i don know i think my husband woke up in a bad mood well me must have, he was yelling at me and insulting more then usual and then i came storming in and asked what is problem was and he put me on his knee and smacked my butt, i ended up attacking him after that because i was so embarassed at what he did to me and im not sure if i can foregive him normally i kind of foreget what he does but today i dont know he just woke up yelling because i have no idea

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Cleaver - posted on 02/03/2013

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it didn't hurt what he did it was just belittling...
i am still with him because i am a stay at home mom and sure i can move back in with my mom but there is no real room for my 2 sons and i there with our clothes, furniture, their toys. i should wait until my sister and her boyfriend has moved out so that were are 2 bedrooms free. and i really don't want to go back to work and sure i would do it if i needed. we could work it out at my moms so that i do cooking, cleaning, and with my family allowance i can get the things we need.

and lastly he left yesterday he took our son to a birthday party and when he came back i had calmed down and we talked and agreed that it cant happen again and that we will get couples counseling and that if that doesn't work out then we shouldn't be together

Michelle - posted on 02/02/2013

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Why are you putting up with an abusive husband? There is help for you if you want to get it.

No one has a right to berate another or assault another and he is doing both. Do you want your children growing up thinking that this is how a marriage should be? Do you want your son think that this is how he should treat his wife and your daughter to expect to be treated as a 2nd class citizen?

That's what you are teaching them by staying in an abusive relationship.

My ex husband was verbally abusive and an alcoholic. I had to leave because I didn't want my sons to grow up thinking that's what a marriage was supposed to be like. I have since married the most loving man and the boys understand that a marriage should be an equal partnership with lots of love.

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