To be mother in law drama

Renee - posted on 10/10/2012 ( 5 moms have responded )

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So my mother in law did a complete 180 on me while she was visiting us while I was pregnant. She made the last three months of my pregnancy a nightmare! I didn't want to say anything to her while I was pregnant because I didn't want my anger to affect my baby instead I made mental notes. She would make little digs at me and tell me to turn off the lights in my own apartment. Every little thing I did she had a comment for and made looks as if I was dumb. Long story short I had my baby and I didn't want my daughter to have a pacifier and when i told her not to give it to my daughter she did anyways and shook her head and rolled her eyes at me. The first day home with my child she was taking pictures of my daughter in her face with the flash on and my mother had to tell her not to flash the lights in my daughters face. Since then she has played the victim, ignored me completely during visits all with a mad look on her face.During her entire visit iIve learned what type of person she is shes a liar and talks behind everyone's back. I would be an idiot to think she doesn't do the same to me.I don't agree with her lifestyle and the conversations her and her daughters bring up constantly infront of their children and grandchildren. One of her daughters allows a woman that was just released from prison to watch over her daughters and live with her. Call me crazy but isn't that a huge red flag people look for?! What should I do?

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Cheryl - posted on 10/13/2012

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dont let it get to ya and it may have or course a struggle on your realationship but if he really loves you than he will stand by you no matter what and also i would tell her your an adult your not in high school anymore so grow up she sounds pretty pity to me and anything you do even if its right will be wrong in eyes but yeah stand your ground dont let her treat you like that anymore its wrong and its not right

Renee - posted on 10/12/2012

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Last time I saw my fiances mother her was last December she was mad because I didn't go over to her daughters house when she wanted me to because I was busy visiting with my brother. So while my husband was with his evil mother and his sisters they were brainwashing him telling him negative things about me and telling him that he should file for custody of our daughter. My husband said he stuck up for me and told me what they had said most likely not all of it though. So this is the best part I gave my daughter my name as her middle name but her son liked the name michelle. When I had my daughter she posted pictures of my daughter with the name michelle on purpose. So my mother in law is a lesbian and I was driving with her and her girlfriend in the car and she brought up why I had given MY daughter my first name as her middle name because I am not a man..Hypocritical? then she shook her head and rolled her eyes. I have a feeling that she will be the reason me and my fiance don't work out and now see why my fiances ex girlfriend hated his family

Renee - posted on 10/12/2012

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Thanks so much Cheryl I really appreciate your advice!! You & my friends are right I will have to confront her next time I see her which is in December

Cheryl - posted on 10/11/2012

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just speak up say something to her tell her she needs to have more respect for you in your home and you do not appreciate her talking about you behind your back she needs to understand that you are the mother she is the grandmother put your foot down if not tell if she continues with the behaviour tell she aint welcome might sound nasty and maybe cause you and your partner problems but he has to understands his mother dose not need to treat you like she dose if not get him to say something to get her to stop or another way have a chat to her and tell she making u feel uncomfortable when she is in your presence and it aint fair

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