video games help

Shay - posted on 12/24/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )

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hello a friend of mine is having problems with her boyfriend all he does is play video games all day and night hes number one goalie in the world for hockey 2013 he never listens to her and always gets annoyed if anyone dose somthing like unpluggng internet the kids are all 5 and under he loves them and i can tell but hes always on the ps3 shes getting annoyed and shes sick of the games how can she get him to understand that its causing problems hes on when he wakes u till bed like 4 in the morning wakes up at 12 to 3 in the afternoon

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Shay - posted on 12/27/2012

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PS he smokes the dope for his back pain he does not want to become addicted to his Oxycontin and other meds

Shay - posted on 12/27/2012

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she said the problem is that he keeps threatening her about taking her to court for there son she is already having court problems with her daughter.. he has no job because he broke his back she stays home with him and there kids she want to wait until her children are all in school then she plans on going to school to become a p.s.w. he cleans up messes every now and then but he gets really bi+++chy about it she says they have not had any sexual relation in a month now he will not watch porn or anything she looks it up on the computer and her husband is really dumb he has no idea how to delete history. he also smokes a lot of dope and she said that it cost a lot of money they are only on odsp he drinks alot to when ever he gets the chance to have beer he will and he drink about 6 to 8 when he has them hes done a case of beer on two maybe 3 days if shes lucky. HE SAYS THAT he thinks she cheated on him because one day she bumped in to a friend and she told him to come in and they watched a movie he came storming ion the house her old neighbors told him that they seen someone in the house so he comes home freaking out saying your a slut blah blah blah this was over a year ago she tried getting a baby sitting job she couldn't keep it he thought she was going to sams house.. she really loves him and dont want to leave she just wants advice she has tried to say its seems like you dont care about me you never pay attention anymore

Eva - posted on 12/25/2012

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He's addicted to gaming. He needs the same sort of help any sort of addict needs. Which means SHE needs to go seek help on what to do with him (because addicts generally don't help themselves). She really needs to lay down the law and basically give him an ultimatum: either the games go or she and the kids do.

Someone who literally plays games all the times is useless. He's going to be a sponge on her time and resources. It doesn't matter if he's a friendly sponge.

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