Wanna wear a bikini again But I am afraid of being judged !

Amanda - posted on 09/12/2012 ( 5 moms have responded )

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I was wondering if there are any moms out there with stretch everywhere , who would ever consider on making some long distance friend connections and one day be brave enough to get together and go on a vacation somewhere and wear our bikini's with their t head held high! I have wanted to find a group of mom who would bare it! Including my self, I am a mother of three and i have them every where but because of so many horrible comments, I am afraid to be judge cause i feel beautiful with my clothes on but as son as i start to bare anything i feel insecure. :)

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Cleaver - posted on 09/16/2012

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how can people be so rude to make comments about things after child birth?? is it men they usually dont quite understand what we go through? try rubbing on stretch mark creams they are supposed to work after also. my mom used it after only and it helped alot. (or creams with vitamin E)

Kari - posted on 09/15/2012

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well if you ever wanna hook up and do a vaca just let me know :) i'll help you get to the confidence level where you won't care about being judged :) just message me hun

Amanda - posted on 09/15/2012

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I have worn a bikini are it took alot to and i did feel not so great but I know it took 7 yeas for me to get to that level of confidence. I just thought it would be fun to have a moms vacation. Meet some new friends who can share stories and understand how I could feel!

Kari - posted on 09/15/2012

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that sounds like a wonderful idea :) i know the feeling too. but i'm always told that we're tiger-mommas :) be proud of your hard earned stripes :)

Tarri - posted on 09/12/2012

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BE confident honey, If you are not comfortable in your skin no one else can be for you. Keep your head up and tell your self you are beautiful. Start off slow, maybe get something that has a little reveal to it, then something with a little more reveal, and work your way up to bikini mode :) Remember you are beautiful and all you have to do is believe. People are always going to judge, but it is up to you to be your own judge. Be comfortable in your skin, and be happy. :)

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