Wanting another but don't know how to discuss it with my husband.

Amber - posted on 10/12/2009 ( 2 moms have responded )




Hi I'm Amber and I'm 21 years old, I'm married and have two boys ages 3 and 10mos. My hubby is in the army and I want to have another one, but i don't know how to discuss it with him. My 2 boys were not planned and I'd really like to have another one, but to plan this one out. He on the other hand doesn't seem to want anymore. How can I voice my desire without feeling like I'll get turn/shut down?


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Sky - posted on 10/12/2009




I would give him more time. He still has a pretty young baby. Once this one is a little older, he will probably miss the baby days and be more likely to agree to it.

Tammy - posted on 10/12/2009




Unfortunately the only way to find out if he wants another baby is to ask! Tell him exactly how u feel and how much it means to u and see how u go. My husband and i only had our first son 3 months ago and we have already discussed having our second baby.

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