ways to go about getting help w/o having my ex be a apart of my son's liffe

Beautifulmom787 - posted on 08/13/2014 ( 7 moms have responded )

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My son is now 3yrs old and his bio-father has never seen him, I desperately need help getting on my feet & the jobs I'm able to get, plus the cost of living (a place to live) is leaving me w/ nothing extra. I want to look into child support but I'm afraid that in doing so that gives my ex the right to be a part of my son's life which is the last thing I want. So my question is what are ways to go about getting help w/o having my ex in my son's life?!

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Beautifulmom787 - posted on 08/21/2014

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So what you're telling me is that you're ok w/ ppl randomly coming in and out of your child's life?! You're ok with drunk alcoholic ppl in your child's life?! Cause that's what it sounds like to me! My sons sperm donor abandoned us and I don't ever want my child to ask me why doesn't someone love him or anything of that sort!! So forgive me for protecting my child! I could've swore that was a parents job! Hm guess I've been doing it wrong these past few years! I'm so sorry that no one can understand the fact all I want to do is what's best for my child!!! I feel sorry for everyone who thinks drunks and liars belong in a child's life!!! I WILL do what it takes to keep my sperm donor OUT of MY child's life!!!! I didn't "ALIENATE" my SPERM DONOR!!!!! It has been his choice to not have contact with me and MY child!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I didn't come here asking to questioned for keeping MY child safe

Beautifulmom787 - posted on 08/20/2014

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Unless you have something help or nice to say don't bother saying anything AT ALL!!!!!

Beautifulmom787 - posted on 08/20/2014

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Not that it's any of y'all business but I don't want drunk alcoholics and compulsive lairs in my sons life. I want want trashy ppl in MY son's life! I want my child to grow up and make something of his life! I don't want ppl who are gonna influence him in a bad way at such a young age. I don't want someone in MY sons life who is just gonna randomly pop in and out of his life when ever they feel like it, it don't work that way. My son deserves a stable environment to grow up in and as his mother I'm gonna do my best to give that to him and if means keeping my sperm donor ex out of the pic then so be it. If when my son turns 18 and he decides he wants to know about his sperm donor then I'll tell him.

Michelle - posted on 08/16/2014

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I have the same question as Dove. why do you want to keep your son's Father from him? Your son does have a right to know his Father, you don't have the right to dictate that.

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