What am i doing?

Renee - posted on 09/27/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )




Im so confussed ritenow. Im 24. Pregangent and i have a 8 year old daughter. Me and my boyfriend just moved in together after three months. I know thats soon but money wise it made sence when we pland this. Now hes not sure if we should have a baby ritenow and thunks i shouldnt keep it.,on the other hand. I was thinkn i cant get pregangent since its been 10. And my daughter has been asking me to have kids for 4years now. I dont know what to do or how to feel when we r not gettn along well but i dont want to get rid of the baby. It could b my only chance to have ah kid again after all the problems i have been haven wit my body. Please tell me yall thoughts. Im only a month so i have time to think. I just feel so depressed. N to top it off. We both leos n our bday is the same day so we r sooooo much,alike


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Joanna - posted on 09/28/2012




Renee it is your body, your baby, your life. Although you have taken the right steps by trying to form a unit with this man, you have to be true to yourself. If you are feeling like abortion is not what you want, then you probably shouldn't have an abortion. You might regret it your whole life. Maybe finding a counseling service could help you sort out all of your thoughts and feelings. If he doesn't want to deal with raising a baby, then he can pay child support and move along. The bottom line is you need to do what is right for YOU.

Lacey - posted on 09/28/2012




U didn't get pregnant alone so its half his responsibility 2 but if u dnt get along and he dnt wnt the baby it will just cause problems 4 the child wen its born so I wud either wait it out and have adoption options or breakup and keep ur miracle baby that u and ur daughter wnt since u may not b able 2 have another. Just my opinion. :)

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