what should i do with a difficult father?

Skiela - posted on 12/21/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )

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The bio father of my child said he wanted nothing to do with my child when i was 3 months pregnant. Than later changed his mind that he wants to be a part of the childs life, and now that I am 8 months and my child is due in january 2013. He's threating my parents household, me and boyfriend of 4 years( which we broke up for 4 months and i dated the bio father of my child and got prego then left him to go back to my boyfriend of 4 years to be happy). I have no problem with him if wants to be in the childs life thats great if he dosnt thats great to. I dont know what to do about him threating me and my family due to his anomisty towards me. I have been nothing but civil and as diplomatic with him as possible. But it is now to a point where being diplomatic is no longer an option with him. I have told him that we do need to have a talk about my child and what he wants. But wants everything on his terms. And I have kept contact with him to a minimual due to the fact he is extremely hot headed. But from the get go when i left him, he wanted nothing to do with the child than flip-floped to wanting to be there to not wanting to be, and is now being malicious with me and my family. Does anyone have any advice for me and my stich?

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Jodi - posted on 12/21/2012

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Book a mediation session to discuss a parenting plan. It sounds like the sooner you can come to an agreement on visitation/custody, the sooner he will leave your family alone.

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