When do stepkids ever realize how lucky they were to have a great stepmom?

Megan - posted on 07/19/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




I have 2 stepsons for 7 years now. They were 6 & 9. They have a selfish, manipulative. Greedy, lying, money hungry whore for a bio mom who has never put them first ever. Constantly putting her own children through court hearings for as much cp as she can get. I had to play mom while she was too busy. I'm the one who ran around doing everything for my stepkids while she again did nothing. She is very manipulative and now that my stepkids are a little older 12 & 16 I feel they are team mom and have forgotten what I do and have do e for them when there mom still continues to do nothing. I know that's their mom and they love her unconditionally but I know 110% I have been a great stepmom to them and have bent over backwards but after 7 years I'm tired and emotionally drained that Im still nothing to them. Do stepkids ever realize and see us more than just a "stepmom" and finally become grateful. If I do more for them why just because I'm not bio mom am I nothing to them emotionally? Why don't they see who their mom is for who she really is.. Waste of space...


Jodi - posted on 07/20/2013




Your post seems to contain a lot of anger towards the bio mum, and not much info about what makes you believe you are not appreciated. What makes you think you are nothing to them? What is it that they are doing in particular that makes you believe this? Who do they live with?

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