When will my sexdrive come back?

Amanda - posted on 09/25/2009 ( 3 moms have responded )




I gave birth to twins in December 2008 and I still don't want to make love to my fiance. When I think about it I start to cry. What can I do?


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Jo - posted on 09/25/2009




talk to him and let him understand what ur feeling. you may feel angry towards him for getting you pregnant in the first place,if so maybe you should end the relationship,or u may see that itll will never be the same as it was before,i had alot of anger towards my partner 5 years ago with the birth of our son,but we talked abouit it and now have a 4 month old,dont let ur feelings go unknown u may regret it in the end.........

Amanda - posted on 09/25/2009




i had my child back in december 2006, and my drive kinda came back for awhile that first year or so, but now that my child is 2 going on 3 it had deffinately gone back into hiding, but i have a very strong willed child and takes every ounce out of me...

Kate - posted on 09/25/2009




for women sex isnt just about the action its a whole emotional process all it takes is for you to be stressed or feel that you are alone in being a mum and your whole body feels that having twins is a big deal and probably doesnt leave much time for you and your partner so i would reccommend reconnecting as lovers not as parents its a whole different mind set. make sure you feel good about yourself go and get your hair done or a massage or even a new bra its amazing the difference you will feel towards someone else when you feel good about yourself

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