why does my ex feel the need to tell me how wreckless he is?

Tanya - posted on 04/05/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )




ok so I admit I was wrong to say my 4 year old daughter was better off with out her dad. agreed. that is why regardless of how I feel I still let them see each other. I just get frustrated on times when I hear how wreck less he is being with his life (to which I know is none of my business) I know but it's hard when I hear he has spent his uni money on a month supply of weed and boomtown festival tickets when he cant even pay for nappies.

the thing is it's not just people telling me this stuff, he freely admits it to me as if it's nothing to get anoid at.
do I just ignore it?
he said he couldn't have our son (22 months) the other day for 2hrs so I can get housework done just because he would have to walk up a hill.
what do I say to that?


Jodi - posted on 04/05/2014




If you have an issue with the fact he isn't supporting your child, file for child support, that way, it doesn't matter what he buys with his money. If he is open about drug use, record it in a diary, as this may be a case for supervised visitation. With regard to asking him to watch your child so you could get housework done....well, it would be nice if he did, but he doesn't have to come running at your beck and call. If you wanted to you also could have taken your daughter to him if it wasn't that far. It was you who wanted the time.

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