why men don't help

User - posted on 07/30/2009 ( 3 moms have responded )

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i find it hard to except the fact that my fiance doesn't handle the responsiblities of our two girls very well...it like he thinks i'm superwoman or something!!

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User - posted on 07/31/2009

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he is slightly old fashion...but leaning more towards the doens't know what to do with them...i do see him bonding better with our 15month old now that she is such a character...but our 5month old he is slowly comin around to...i'm almost positive its because he has no clue, he was raised with all boys...me all girls and i was the oldest, its just in me!!

Jamie - posted on 07/30/2009

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Is he old fashion? And how old are they? My DH is old fashion and women stay home cook and take care of kids and the man goes to work. Now he does help on occassion since we both work, I work because I like it not because I have to. Also, he didnt get to involved with the kids until they were about 2, he jsut didnt know what to do with them and they couldnt communicate, as they get older hes gotten way better, especially now since they are potty trained. Before you get married you need to figure out if his behavior is something you can live with, you cant change a man and dont make yourself miserible just because of love.

Lisa - posted on 07/30/2009

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It may not be that, but rather he just doesn't have the "daddy gene". Sometimes guys just don't know what to do with kids. Especially girls. They don't know how to relate to them.

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