will my babys father come around?

Breanna - posted on 08/26/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )




im 5 1/2 months pregnant due in december. my babys father and i broke up 3 weeks ago, before we both knew iwas pregnant. he started seeing someone else right away, after being together for 2 years. now that he knows im pregnant, he keeps playing games. he says he wants to be a family 1 day, then the next he hates me and we'll never be a family. he told me that he made up talking to this new girl, to make me mad then spent a week at my house acting like we were back together. as soon as he went home, his mom told me he was with her. she added me on facebook while he was here and ihad her call me, because obviously there was things we needed to talk about. itold her we were sleeping together, he said he made her up & of course he wouldnt get on the phone with her to say anything. he just texted her saying he couldnt talk to her anymore. then left and went back to her. he continues to text me sometimes saying he wants to be a family, or he wants to live with me & his son, and that if we wanted tomove he would come with us. so what is stopping him from actually being a family with us? im not going to lie, ilove him but im not going to put up with the games. the girl obviously knows that me & him are going to be a part of eachothers life, and if she wants to deal with him sleeping here and saying all these things to me when hes not with her, iguess thats on her. but its really starting to stress me out and i know thats not healthy for my son. i feel like hes going to change once our son is born but im not going to continue to let him walk all over me.

what should i do? :(


Kelina - posted on 08/26/2012




he's not going to change when your son is born, he's being an ass tell him to get out and stay out. tell him he can come back when he can be a grownup and be part of your sons life. Don't wait. either he changes now or he leaves end of story. yes you love him. You'll always feel something for the father of your child but you need to be strong for you and your baby. good luck.

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