Work things out or give up?

Meam0585 - posted on 01/13/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )




So my ex and I had been together 8 months before we found out we were pregnant. Everything was fine until December when we started having issues due to me being stressed and taking things out on him. He ended up moving out then a few days later breaking things off. We tried to hang out but he said I was just constantly putting him down and beaning mean. We stopped talking for a few weeks and just started talking again last week. I haven't asked him for anything (I lost my job in August when my work found out I was pregnant due to being on probation and being an at will job) I've relied on what money I did save to get a crib and diapers etc. But that money is running thin so I had no choice but to apply for gov aid. My ex and I are trying to start fresh like were just friends that occasionally see each other, but I feel like no matter what we just aren't going to get back together. I'm 28, he's 25. I truly love this man and he knows I do-should I keep trying to work things out or should I just let him go?


Cara - posted on 01/13/2014




My situation is similar to yours... I wouldn't worry to much about your ex and be a strong person that you can be for your baby that your bring into the world. Sometimes things happen for a reason,
but I hope that he will come around when it get closer to your due date and hopefully he can realize what he going to miss out. But I wish you and your ex the best of luck hope you can work things out and be there for one another. If it don't work out be strong and stay positive for your little who is soon entering into this world.

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