young and not getting it

Keyta - posted on 05/06/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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my ex ended our relationship when i was 3 months pregnant..he moved on and now the girl is telling him she loves him and blah blah.....a few weeks ago me and him had a one on one talk about visitation for our daughter. He has never took the initiative to come see his daughter. When i ask him about it he says he cant because he has no car but his girlfriend does and she lets him drive to work. The only time he sees his daughter is when i take her to his job. He also said that he doesnt love the girl he loves me and my 2 and he wants me to wait till they fall apart. I do love him...but im not waiting around for no man. I want that picture perfect family but My focus now is to get my Bsw and continue to do for my kids and I.

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Jocelyn - posted on 05/07/2013

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You should not wait on him. Yes a family means everything but obviously he wants her if he left you for her. He doesn't want you because if he did he would have came back to you instead of saying wait until they fall apart. A real man wouldn't do his woman that way. Find you someone who will accept you and your kids and soon he can be step daddy. Your ex will see what a terrible mistake he's made and will try to come back to you BUT that is when you must be strong and reject him and move on with your life. It's ok for him to see your daughter. It's ok for him to spend time with her but not you. If he spends time with you he will whisper little things in your ear that will probably make you cheat. Stay your distance or have your other man around when he's around. If you plan on staying single then be a STRONG WOMAN... Good luck *smooches*

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never wait on another person. it's not worth it and your happiness should never hinge entirely on someone else's actions. it's hard when feelings are involved, but try and not get attached to this guy and keep your interactions limited to those involving his relationship with your daughter

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