Your all so nasty to each other

Michelle - posted on 07/07/2009 ( 60 moms have responded )

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Since my daughter was born 7 months ago ive looked at circle of mums for support and advice and ive offerd advice wherever i could as were all mums here and we should stick together and help each other. I pop on about twice a week to read some of the threads and ask my own questions now and then and have always found everyone really helpful and kind. Yesterday i happend to stumble across a debate regarding teenage sex and i was shocked to read some of the things. I couldnt believe how you spoke to each other and the names you called each other were disgusting. I know it was a debate but bebate does not mean abuse each other and to be honest i cant believe you get away with it. Somthing that has been such a support for me over the months has now turned into somthing i dont want to get involved in, i think that is so sad as its hard to find good support out there.

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There is gossip and back-stabbing even over the internet! It's sad, but I just don't read or post anything to threads that turn ugly. I have no problem flagging something as inappropriate either. On this Circle of Moms site, as in life, I just don't participate because I am not a gossip or a backstabber. So, lets just all work to keep it clean and appropriate and to build each other up, not tear each other down! We all have so much information and knowledge to share and I enjoy and appreciate most of the conversations I've read and been involved in. Have a good day everyone!

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I am an administrator for a group Young Mothers Under 25. As admin, I monitor threads, it might sound bad, but I hate abuse, debate does not mean you attack people.
I also have the authority to stop someone posting, and I would, luckily never had to do it.

Seriously that thread should have been deleted a long time ago, We are supposed to be a group of mothers, if we abuse each other like that how can we expect our children to act.

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Can i just add aswell, it clearly says on the heading of the young mums community. Please be kind to other mums and respect there opinions. Nowhere does it say please feel free to attack other women and let them know you think they are bad parents.

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MY GOODNESS! Michelle was concerned...and now everyone is bashing everyone again. I am no saint and I have said a thing to another mother, that I am not proud of. But I think people should be respectful of one another, even if they use slang or high zoot words, that I have to get a dictionary out to even know what they are talking about. MOTHERS GET A LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Or mind your P's and Q's

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Quoting Nichole:



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nichole u wus 1 dem 1ns makin fun mi







...what language is that?









Ebonics???





Oh my! Honestly where do you find that is OK? Not everyone is entitled to the same education system. Granted, this is not the wording I would have chosen to answer in, but not everyone would agree with me.

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Nichole - posted on 07/09/2009

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Ok so i'm not sayin that i know everything, but did you ever think that maybe she is native american and they do name there kids like that......i live in Iowa and have heard some not so normal names (to the rest of society) from the native american population.....but i know (me personally) wouldn't be sayin that its fake cuz what if its not.......than what are you sayin about yourself......i just think that some people think that if everyone is not like them than its not right......just be nice and if you can't be than just don't say anything to that person......











She's 15 with 4 kids....That isnt even possible. And she is on her 5th..It is fake.
















Ok so i know that is does sound fake but it is possible that she had a baby at 10 years old....check out this web site....http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_you...












That website didn't work.








But I am not going to argue with you anymore about it. The site is fake cause I had a spat with Amanda Passmore/Garza and she was booted off the site, now all the sudden theirs some girl on here saying dumb stuff and I am the only one she commented in my comment box saying she was reporting me just like Amanda always has. I am no dummy...










i dont no wat yer talkin bout. i am RHONDA, Y  is hard 2 understad?  y u so judgmental? u have sum grudg for sum other chik and u takin it out on me? why 4? ppl join cirlce mums all da time. i was lookin 4 a place to tlk wit other yung mums. i join many groups as i can to tlk to many yung mums. i wrote on many ppl wall not just yers. i met sum nice ppl here and sum obses ppl like u and sum not so nice ppl who just swor at mi. y u obsessin?





So, you only commented on other moms pages AFTER I made that comment and the only group you are commenting in is the ONLY one I comment in..Remember we can see ALL your activity on your page.



Come on Ladies, lets not be sooooooooooooo stupid.

Charlie - posted on 07/08/2009

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well if it is a true account the man , or men getting you pregnant and the rest of the girls your age are paedophiles , has anyone even thought about that , who knocks up a 10 , 11 , 12 , 13 , 14 , or even 15 year old girl ??

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Ok so i'm not sayin that i know everything, but did you ever think that maybe she is native american and they do name there kids like that......i live in Iowa and have heard some not so normal names (to the rest of society) from the native american population.....but i know (me personally) wouldn't be sayin that its fake cuz what if its not.......than what are you sayin about yourself......i just think that some people think that if everyone is not like them than its not right......just be nice and if you can't be than just don't say anything to that person......











She's 15 with 4 kids....That isnt even possible. And she is on her 5th..It is fake.















I realize this comment has nothing to do with the original question on this forum, but with regard to this allegedly fake account, I have to agree that it is extremely suspicious.  Perhaps Kelly, you have not come across some of the other posts made by "Rhonda", but when she claims that she had her first child at the age of 10...and has had three more after that and is now 15 with another on the way...does that even sound realistic to you?  Perhaps the person (Rhonda) is not fake, but her story certainly leads me to believe that she's slinging a lot of bull on circle of moms.  And as for the language, I am an ESL teacher and not even the most illiterate person that I've tutored would make word combinations the way that she has---it's as though she is trying hard to appear young and immature, and coupled with her outlandish claim to have four children at the age of 15 only strengthens my gut feeling that she is bogus.













i am 16 and der is tons of gurls on my res wit lotsa kids









I am not passing personal judgment.  If you are infact being truthful about your claim to have so many children starting from the age of 10 then there are a million questions I am inclined to ask with regard to why you have such a non-chalant attitude at the reality of having so many children so young.  Certainly there are lots of young teens that become pregnant and become parents and the experience is life-changing...but in all of the posts I have read of yours, you still parade around as if having four children is just common place and you are afforded the ability to hang around the 7-11 with your friends and do all of the things that a person could not do with that many children in tow.  Just makes me question the validity of your claim.






most mi gurls, they got 2-3 kids to and they the same age as mi. my mum got her 6 kids by time she wus 20. dis is norm 4 my fam

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Ok so i'm not sayin that i know everything, but did you ever think that maybe she is native american and they do name there kids like that......i live in Iowa and have heard some not so normal names (to the rest of society) from the native american population.....but i know (me personally) wouldn't be sayin that its fake cuz what if its not.......than what are you sayin about yourself......i just think that some people think that if everyone is not like them than its not right......just be nice and if you can't be than just don't say anything to that person......









She's 15 with 4 kids....That isnt even possible. And she is on her 5th..It is fake.












I realize this comment has nothing to do with the original question on this forum, but with regard to this allegedly fake account, I have to agree that it is extremely suspicious.  Perhaps Kelly, you have not come across some of the other posts made by "Rhonda", but when she claims that she had her first child at the age of 10...and has had three more after that and is now 15 with another on the way...does that even sound realistic to you?  Perhaps the person (Rhonda) is not fake, but her story certainly leads me to believe that she's slinging a lot of bull on circle of moms.  And as for the language, I am an ESL teacher and not even the most illiterate person that I've tutored would make word combinations the way that she has---it's as though she is trying hard to appear young and immature, and coupled with her outlandish claim to have four children at the age of 15 only strengthens my gut feeling that she is bogus.










i am 16 and der is tons of gurls on my res wit lotsa kids





I am not passing personal judgment.  If you are infact being truthful about your claim to have so many children starting from the age of 10 then there are a million questions I am inclined to ask with regard to why you have such a non-chalant attitude at the reality of having so many children so young.  Certainly there are lots of young teens that become pregnant and become parents and the experience is life-changing...but in all of the posts I have read of yours, you still parade around as if having four children is just common place and you are afforded the ability to hang around the 7-11 with your friends and do all of the things that a person could not do with that many children in tow.  Just makes me question the validity of your claim.

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to da res ah ya. i neva said dat i let mi kids out late. they in bed at 7 evry nite.

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Quoting Kelly:

Ok so i'm not sayin that i know everything, but did you ever think that maybe she is native american and they do name there kids like that......i live in Iowa and have heard some not so normal names (to the rest of society) from the native american population.....but i know (me personally) wouldn't be sayin that its fake cuz what if its not.......than what are you sayin about yourself......i just think that some people think that if everyone is not like them than its not right......just be nice and if you can't be than just don't say anything to that person......



hi kelly. i am a reel mum wit reel dream 4 my family. i wus lookin for supporten group. i join as many yung mom group as i can 4 much support. i am aboriginal yes but sum ppl still think dat aboriginal do no exist i gess.

Rhonda - posted on 07/08/2009

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Quoting Nichole:



Quoting Kelly:




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Ok so i'm not sayin that i know everything, but did you ever think that maybe she is native american and they do name there kids like that......i live in Iowa and have heard some not so normal names (to the rest of society) from the native american population.....but i know (me personally) wouldn't be sayin that its fake cuz what if its not.......than what are you sayin about yourself......i just think that some people think that if everyone is not like them than its not right......just be nice and if you can't be than just don't say anything to that person......









She's 15 with 4 kids....That isnt even possible. And she is on her 5th..It is fake.













Ok so i know that is does sound fake but it is possible that she had a baby at 10 years old....check out this web site....http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_you...









That website didn't work.






But I am not going to argue with you anymore about it. The site is fake cause I had a spat with Amanda Passmore/Garza and she was booted off the site, now all the sudden theirs some girl on here saying dumb stuff and I am the only one she commented in my comment box saying she was reporting me just like Amanda always has. I am no dummy...






i dont no wat yer talkin bout. i am RHONDA, Y  is hard 2 understad?  y u so judgmental? u have sum grudg for sum other chik and u takin it out on me? why 4? ppl join cirlce mums all da time. i was lookin 4 a place to tlk wit other yung mums. i join many groups as i can to tlk to many yung mums. i wrote on many ppl wall not just yers. i met sum nice ppl here and sum obses ppl like u and sum not so nice ppl who just swor at mi. y u obsessin?

Rhonda - posted on 07/08/2009

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Quoting Jaime:



Quoting Nichole:




Quoting Kelly:

Ok so i'm not sayin that i know everything, but did you ever think that maybe she is native american and they do name there kids like that......i live in Iowa and have heard some not so normal names (to the rest of society) from the native american population.....but i know (me personally) wouldn't be sayin that its fake cuz what if its not.......than what are you sayin about yourself......i just think that some people think that if everyone is not like them than its not right......just be nice and if you can't be than just don't say anything to that person......







She's 15 with 4 kids....That isnt even possible. And she is on her 5th..It is fake.









I realize this comment has nothing to do with the original question on this forum, but with regard to this allegedly fake account, I have to agree that it is extremely suspicious.  Perhaps Kelly, you have not come across some of the other posts made by "Rhonda", but when she claims that she had her first child at the age of 10...and has had three more after that and is now 15 with another on the way...does that even sound realistic to you?  Perhaps the person (Rhonda) is not fake, but her story certainly leads me to believe that she's slinging a lot of bull on circle of moms.  And as for the language, I am an ESL teacher and not even the most illiterate person that I've tutored would make word combinations the way that she has---it's as though she is trying hard to appear young and immature, and coupled with her outlandish claim to have four children at the age of 15 only strengthens my gut feeling that she is bogus.






i am 16 and der is tons of gurls on my res wit lotsa kids

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Quoting Nichole:



Quoting Kelly:

Ok so i'm not sayin that i know everything, but did you ever think that maybe she is native american and they do name there kids like that......i live in Iowa and have heard some not so normal names (to the rest of society) from the native american population.....but i know (me personally) wouldn't be sayin that its fake cuz what if its not.......than what are you sayin about yourself......i just think that some people think that if everyone is not like them than its not right......just be nice and if you can't be than just don't say anything to that person......





She's 15 with 4 kids....That isnt even possible. And she is on her 5th..It is fake.





I realize this comment has nothing to do with the original question on this forum, but with regard to this allegedly fake account, I have to agree that it is extremely suspicious.  Perhaps Kelly, you have not come across some of the other posts made by "Rhonda", but when she claims that she had her first child at the age of 10...and has had three more after that and is now 15 with another on the way...does that even sound realistic to you?  Perhaps the person (Rhonda) is not fake, but her story certainly leads me to believe that she's slinging a lot of bull on circle of moms.  And as for the language, I am an ESL teacher and not even the most illiterate person that I've tutored would make word combinations the way that she has---it's as though she is trying hard to appear young and immature, and coupled with her outlandish claim to have four children at the age of 15 only strengthens my gut feeling that she is bogus.

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I'm with you on this one! But instead of reading the so called 'debates', I just pass over them now. I don't want to hear people trash talking each other. People have opinions, and I understand that. But we're ALL mother's! That should mean we are all ADULTS. The petty arguing and what not should be left behind with your adolescence when you become a parent. No one on here (friends aside) really knows one another enough to say some of the hurtful things I've come across. Some people on here call themselves grown, mature women. But you're really just making yourselves sound like high school teenagers with the rude, and ignorant things you say. We're NOT here to judge people, this site (including the so called 'debate threads') is for help and support. And for all the people wanting to put down someone's question or advice, SKIP OVER IT!!!!! Pretend you didn't read it. Whatever you need to do to keep the rude comments to yourselves!!

I like this site for the HELP not the arguments! I've gotten some helpful advice :)

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Hi guys, just wanted to say I hope you are all enjoying your little ones...nothing to do with the thread, but still thought I would add a post :)

Nichole - posted on 07/08/2009

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Quoting Kelly:



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Quoting Kelly:

Ok so i'm not sayin that i know everything, but did you ever think that maybe she is native american and they do name there kids like that......i live in Iowa and have heard some not so normal names (to the rest of society) from the native american population.....but i know (me personally) wouldn't be sayin that its fake cuz what if its not.......than what are you sayin about yourself......i just think that some people think that if everyone is not like them than its not right......just be nice and if you can't be than just don't say anything to that person......







She's 15 with 4 kids....That isnt even possible. And she is on her 5th..It is fake.










Ok so i know that is does sound fake but it is possible that she had a baby at 10 years old....check out this web site....http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_you...





That website didn't work.



But I am not going to argue with you anymore about it. The site is fake cause I had a spat with Amanda Passmore/Garza and she was booted off the site, now all the sudden theirs some girl on here saying dumb stuff and I am the only one she commented in my comment box saying she was reporting me just like Amanda always has. I am no dummy...

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Quoting Nichole:



Quoting Kelly:

Ok so i'm not sayin that i know everything, but did you ever think that maybe she is native american and they do name there kids like that......i live in Iowa and have heard some not so normal names (to the rest of society) from the native american population.....but i know (me personally) wouldn't be sayin that its fake cuz what if its not.......than what are you sayin about yourself......i just think that some people think that if everyone is not like them than its not right......just be nice and if you can't be than just don't say anything to that person......





She's 15 with 4 kids....That isnt even possible. And she is on her 5th..It is fake.






Ok so i know that is does sound fake but it is possible that she had a baby at 10 years old....check out this web site....http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_you...

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I think people need to stick to giving their iopinions and not attacking others for theirs. You think breastfeeding is great! Someone else thinks it isn't for them. Give why you are for or against it and leave the other person out of it. Attacking the person who didn't breastfeed as a poor Mother who should have never had kids is childish.



Really when I see posts that attack specific people most of the time it's because that person cannot support their argument so they're taking the lazy way out.

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Ok so i'm not sayin that i know everything, but did you ever think that maybe she is native american and they do name there kids like that......i live in Iowa and have heard some not so normal names (to the rest of society) from the native american population.....but i know (me personally) wouldn't be sayin that its fake cuz what if its not.......than what are you sayin about yourself......i just think that some people think that if everyone is not like them than its not right......just be nice and if you can't be than just don't say anything to that person......


She's 15 with 4 kids....That isnt even possible. And she is on her 5th..It is fake.

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Ok so i'm not sayin that i know everything, but did you ever think that maybe she is native american and they do name there kids like that......i live in Iowa and have heard some not so normal names (to the rest of society) from the native american population.....but i know (me personally) wouldn't be sayin that its fake cuz what if its not.......than what are you sayin about yourself......i just think that some people think that if everyone is not like them than its not right......just be nice and if you can't be than just don't say anything to that person......

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All of the mothers who are saying we are mean for saying anything to Amanda.....I mean Rhonda. Go on her page its someone messing with us, it's not real....Did anyone see her post were she talks about hanging outside 7-11 late at night with her 4 kids smoking. She is 15 with 4 kids and has another one on the way..Yeah right, come on now.

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nichole u wus 1 dem 1ns makin fun mi











...what language is that?















Ebonics???












Oh my! Honestly where do you find that is OK? Not everyone is entitled to the same education system. Granted, this is not the wording I would have chosen to answer in, but not everyone would agree with me.









Read the whole post!!!!!!!!!!!! This account is fake..





 

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Well it had started as a mom asking a question, but then some "ladies" got wind that she had had her children at 16, and they just went nuts blasting the mom, then each other, so one of them got the idea to start a new thread on the issue, which faned the flames. It is absolutely disgusting to see the way these "ladies" talk to each other and about others, we are all women looking for some advice, support and they are acting like children... like a teenage clique... unbelievable....







sorry I was that mom that got pregnant at 16 and started all this, and I didnt think because I asked for some advise that everything would blow out of porportion.. its kinda sad that all these "women" wanna do is fight over something I think is plan dumb... what one wants to do with their body doesnt matter at what age is their choice not anyone else to judge









 i got pregnant at 16 too and it was the best thing that ever happened to me and im a great mum : ) i love my kids very much and i look after them very well, 





I am a great mom too.. I love my kids, if it wasnt for my son I wouldnt of got my GED and started college.. My son was a blessing!!!!

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Quoting Ashley:

Well it had started as a mom asking a question, but then some "ladies" got wind that she had had her children at 16, and they just went nuts blasting the mom, then each other, so one of them got the idea to start a new thread on the issue, which faned the flames. It is absolutely disgusting to see the way these "ladies" talk to each other and about others, we are all women looking for some advice, support and they are acting like children... like a teenage clique... unbelievable....







sorry I was that mom that got pregnant at 16 and started all this, and I didnt think because I asked for some advise that everything would blow out of porportion.. its kinda sad that all these "women" wanna do is fight over something I think is plan dumb... what one wants to do with their body doesnt matter at what age is their choice not anyone else to judge









 i got pregnant at 16 too and it was the best thing that ever happened to me and im a great mum : ) i love my kids very much and i look after them very well, 





I am a great mom too.. I love my kids, if it wasnt for my son I wouldnt of got my GED and started college.. My son was a blessing!!!!

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I think it's hilarious.... I never get involved in all the crap but you definitely get to know some girls from reading some things they've written... contradicting themselves & making themselves seem like they're just waiting for a 'fight'.
Well when I miss highschool, I just read those posts & I feel right back there ;-)

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Quoting Ashley:

Well it had started as a mom asking a question, but then some "ladies" got wind that she had had her children at 16, and they just went nuts blasting the mom, then each other, so one of them got the idea to start a new thread on the issue, which faned the flames. It is absolutely disgusting to see the way these "ladies" talk to each other and about others, we are all women looking for some advice, support and they are acting like children... like a teenage clique... unbelievable....





sorry I was that mom that got pregnant at 16 and started all this, and I didnt think because I asked for some advise that everything would blow out of porportion.. its kinda sad that all these "women" wanna do is fight over something I think is plan dumb... what one wants to do with their body doesnt matter at what age is their choice not anyone else to judge





 i got pregnant at 16 too and it was the best thing that ever happened to me and im a great mum : ) i love my kids very much and i look after them very well, 

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some people just need to grow up god im only 20 and i have 2 kids had them young which i am now proud i did, people who are just going to bitch and judge are just need to grow up seriously there is no need for nasty coments

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I have read alot of nasty comments on COM and i just don't post to those questions.....i just find it easier to not get involved in the drama.....and i think that there is more drama on this site than in anyones real life...but i guess i could be wrong...i know that everyone has there own way of parenting, and that moms just come here to seek other moms advice....to see what others are doing, not to be told that what they are doing is wrong.....but thats just what i think, i have gotten alot of good advice from this site, and i am going to continue to use it, just going to skip posting to the questions with nasty comments....

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As long as everyone has a differant opinion there is always going to be debate some people are very passionate when it comes to their beliefs , and lets face it women can be very bitchy its not a secret ,

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Quoting Ashley:

Well it had started as a mom asking a question, but then some "ladies" got wind that she had had her children at 16, and they just went nuts blasting the mom, then each other, so one of them got the idea to start a new thread on the issue, which faned the flames. It is absolutely disgusting to see the way these "ladies" talk to each other and about others, we are all women looking for some advice, support and they are acting like children... like a teenage clique... unbelievable....


sorry I was that mom that got pregnant at 16 and started all this, and I didnt think because I asked for some advise that everything would blow out of porportion.. its kinda sad that all these "women" wanna do is fight over something I think is plan dumb... what one wants to do with their body doesnt matter at what age is their choice not anyone else to judge

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Quoting Stephanie:

There is gossip and back-stabbing even over the internet! It's sad, but I just don't read or post anything to threads that turn ugly. I have no problem flagging something as inappropriate either. On this Circle of Moms site, as in life, I just don't participate because I am not a gossip or a backstabber. So, lets just all work to keep it clean and appropriate and to build each other up, not tear each other down! We all have so much information and knowledge to share and I enjoy and appreciate most of the conversations I've read and been involved in. Have a good day everyone!


Well said!!



Thanks Stephanie for the positivity!!    : )



I am guilty of finding the back-and-forth on the "16 sex debate" thing amusing, but I will try now to not get involved!  If it doesn't do anybody any good, why do it?  : )

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You know ladies I just spent a few minutes reading all of these post and I can't help but wonder why this in itself has become a debate. I just posted my first question yesterday and got great responses so I will continue to use this as a way to seek advice from other young moms. However, I feel that with as little free time that we all have being moms our time would be better spent helping eachother than debating who is right and who is wrong.

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Quoting Kate:




Quoting rhonda:

nichole u wus 1 dem 1ns makin fun mi







...what language is that?









Ebonics???





I was thinking Retardese...but I've been wrong before. :P



 



And yes, that was mean and nasty and I don't care. Internet and text slang is stupid. :P

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Quoting Kate:



Quoting rhonda:

nichole u wus 1 dem 1ns makin fun mi





...what language is that?





Ebonics???

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Quoting Kate:



Quoting rhonda:

nichole u wus 1 dem 1ns makin fun mi





...what language is that?





Ebonics???

Kate CP - posted on 07/07/2009

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nichole u wus 1 dem 1ns makin fun mi


...what language is that?

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Sorry but its a public forum. And while I dont agree with some of the name calling, its a part of being on a publick forum. And it takes 2 people to argue. Not defending her but everyone talks about Amanda Passmore. Heres my question, if Amanda makes a rude comment and no one responds to it and ignores it she would have no one to argue with. Am I not right? If you dont like someones opinion on something or advice they give then ignore it. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and parenting style. And obviously people are coming here asking for advice, you arent always going to get what you want to hear otherwise we would all be raising babies the same way and we cant because babies are different and people are different. I know I am big bitch on this board sometimes(thats my personality its not going to change), but i do give honest advice and offer support when I feel its needed. So while you may not like what I have to say nothing says you have to respond to it. And by responding you are in a sense adding to any argument that may arise. So like I said, if you dont agree with something someone says about a post then dont respond.





 

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nichole u wus 1 dem 1ns makin fun mi





I'm not making fun of you. Just cause I think your posts are funny doesn't mean I am making fun of you. lol. I just think its funny you made up a fake account to make fun of the situation. It's great!!!





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nichole u wus 1 dem 1ns makin fun mi


I'm not making fun of you. Just cause I think your posts are funny doesn't mean I am making fun of you. lol. I just think its funny you made up a fake account to make fun of the situation. It's great!!!

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tell mi bout dat shiit. i wus jus on ther and dus gals makin me fel bad. sain meen stuff

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Quoting Rachel:



Quoting Jamie:




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Quoting Jamie:

Sorry but its a public forum. And while I dont agree with some of the name calling, its a part of being on a publick forum. And it takes 2 people to argue. Not defending her but everyone talks about Amanda Passmore. Heres my question, if Amanda makes a rude comment and no one responds to it and ignores it she would have no one to argue with. Am I not right? If you dont like someones opinion on something or advice they give then ignore it. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and parenting style. And obviously people are coming here asking for advice, you arent always going to get what you want to hear otherwise we would all be raising babies the same way and we cant because babies are different and people are different. I know I am big bitch on this board sometimes(thats my personality its not going to change), but i do give honest advice and offer support when I feel its needed. So while you may not like what I have to say nothing says you have to respond to it. And by responding you are in a sense adding to any argument that may arise. So like I said, if you dont agree with something someone says about a post then dont respond.









There have been plently of posts were I don't agree with her and have not said 2 words to her but she is the one that starts with me and comments on something that I have written and of course I am going to defend myself and not let some snot nose talk to me the way she does.












Well by responding you are feeding the fire. So you are part of the problem. If you ignored her comments it would end there.









Yes Jamie you are right if you respond then your feeding the fire, however with Amanda she would just go to your wall and write mean and hateful things on your wall so ignoring this woman did'nt help anyone. And yes i will agree with you that you can be a real bitch on here but you do also give good advice, so why not leave the name calling and bitchiness in the high school yard were it belongs and just give advice. You are one of the ones on here that really generalises people and puts them into the same bracket as someone else and that can cause problems because people don't like being generalised as a slut or hoe just because they had sex early in life of they are a young mum. This is why people have problems with what you post. I dont care what people think of me i tell it how i see it to, but there's a way for you to get your point accross without being nasty and bitchy.






My opinion on this is that if everyone could learn what a debate is and learn how to debate the pro's and con's of the conversation then there would'nt be as many problems on here.





Totally agreed with every word.



And Amanda  has done that to me too. She actually used a racial slur on my wall, it's still there.

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Again if you dont like something dont respond.

Rachel: you refer to my post on 16yr olds having sex. Sorry it was an honest debate I gave my opinion, doesnt mean you have to agree, doesnt mean you have to respond. As for Amanda, apparently she knows how to get under certain peoples skin. If she posts on your wall just delete it. you dont have to respond.



Nichole; you dont have to defend yourself to anyone. if you just let it go then nothing further would be done.

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Quoting Jamie:



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Quoting Jamie:

Sorry but its a public forum. And while I dont agree with some of the name calling, its a part of being on a publick forum. And it takes 2 people to argue. Not defending her but everyone talks about Amanda Passmore. Heres my question, if Amanda makes a rude comment and no one responds to it and ignores it she would have no one to argue with. Am I not right? If you dont like someones opinion on something or advice they give then ignore it. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and parenting style. And obviously people are coming here asking for advice, you arent always going to get what you want to hear otherwise we would all be raising babies the same way and we cant because babies are different and people are different. I know I am big bitch on this board sometimes(thats my personality its not going to change), but i do give honest advice and offer support when I feel its needed. So while you may not like what I have to say nothing says you have to respond to it. And by responding you are in a sense adding to any argument that may arise. So like I said, if you dont agree with something someone says about a post then dont respond.







There have been plently of posts were I don't agree with her and have not said 2 words to her but she is the one that starts with me and comments on something that I have written and of course I am going to defend myself and not let some snot nose talk to me the way she does.









Well by responding you are feeding the fire. So you are part of the problem. If you ignored her comments it would end there.





Yes Jamie you are right if you respond then your feeding the fire, however with Amanda she would just go to your wall and write mean and hateful things on your wall so ignoring this woman did'nt help anyone. And yes i will agree with you that you can be a real bitch on here but you do also give good advice, so why not leave the name calling and bitchiness in the high school yard were it belongs and just give advice. You are one of the ones on here that really generalises people and puts them into the same bracket as someone else and that can cause problems because people don't like being generalised as a slut or hoe just because they had sex early in life of they are a young mum. This is why people have problems with what you post. I dont care what people think of me i tell it how i see it to, but there's a way for you to get your point accross without being nasty and bitchy.



My opinion on this is that if everyone could learn what a debate is and learn how to debate the pro's and con's of the conversation then there would'nt be as many problems on here.

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Quoting Jamie:



Quoting Nichole:




Quoting Jamie:

Sorry but its a public forum. And while I dont agree with some of the name calling, its a part of being on a publick forum. And it takes 2 people to argue. Not defending her but everyone talks about Amanda Passmore. Heres my question, if Amanda makes a rude comment and no one responds to it and ignores it she would have no one to argue with. Am I not right? If you dont like someones opinion on something or advice they give then ignore it. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and parenting style. And obviously people are coming here asking for advice, you arent always going to get what you want to hear otherwise we would all be raising babies the same way and we cant because babies are different and people are different. I know I am big bitch on this board sometimes(thats my personality its not going to change), but i do give honest advice and offer support when I feel its needed. So while you may not like what I have to say nothing says you have to respond to it. And by responding you are in a sense adding to any argument that may arise. So like I said, if you dont agree with something someone says about a post then dont respond.







There have been plently of posts were I don't agree with her and have not said 2 words to her but she is the one that starts with me and comments on something that I have written and of course I am going to defend myself and not let some snot nose talk to me the way she does.









Well by responding you are feeding the fire. So you are part of the problem. If you ignored her comments it would end there.





I am sorry Jamie that you feel that I am part of the problem but me defending myself is not a problem and if I not mistaking aren't you one the ones who gets yelled at all the time for being rude and nasty...I am pretty sure this post was directed towards you and a few others.

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Quoting Nichole:



Quoting Jamie:

Sorry but its a public forum. And while I dont agree with some of the name calling, its a part of being on a publick forum. And it takes 2 people to argue. Not defending her but everyone talks about Amanda Passmore. Heres my question, if Amanda makes a rude comment and no one responds to it and ignores it she would have no one to argue with. Am I not right? If you dont like someones opinion on something or advice they give then ignore it. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and parenting style. And obviously people are coming here asking for advice, you arent always going to get what you want to hear otherwise we would all be raising babies the same way and we cant because babies are different and people are different. I know I am big bitch on this board sometimes(thats my personality its not going to change), but i do give honest advice and offer support when I feel its needed. So while you may not like what I have to say nothing says you have to respond to it. And by responding you are in a sense adding to any argument that may arise. So like I said, if you dont agree with something someone says about a post then dont respond.





There have been plently of posts were I don't agree with her and have not said 2 words to her but she is the one that starts with me and comments on something that I have written and of course I am going to defend myself and not let some snot nose talk to me the way she does.





Well by responding you are feeding the fire. So you are part of the problem. If you ignored her comments it would end there.

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Quoting Jamie:

Sorry but its a public forum. And while I dont agree with some of the name calling, its a part of being on a publick forum. And it takes 2 people to argue. Not defending her but everyone talks about Amanda Passmore. Heres my question, if Amanda makes a rude comment and no one responds to it and ignores it she would have no one to argue with. Am I not right? If you dont like someones opinion on something or advice they give then ignore it. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and parenting style. And obviously people are coming here asking for advice, you arent always going to get what you want to hear otherwise we would all be raising babies the same way and we cant because babies are different and people are different. I know I am big bitch on this board sometimes(thats my personality its not going to change), but i do give honest advice and offer support when I feel its needed. So while you may not like what I have to say nothing says you have to respond to it. And by responding you are in a sense adding to any argument that may arise. So like I said, if you dont agree with something someone says about a post then dont respond.



I agree that everyone has different parenting skills and thats fine but when i see people calling other mums sluts and hoes i cant help thinking that that kind of talk is inappropriate and just downt right rude. Fine if you dont agree with peoples parenting skills but that doesnt give anyone the right to verbally abuse people. There is no argument its just commen decency.

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I just don't post in the threads that get too heated with the name calling as I find that ridiculous. I will sometimes get involved in a debate before there is major name calling and then I back away (though, I'm someone that is usually never picked out to start a fight with lol). I still feel totally fine asking questions if I have one and helping out where I can.

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there was another one on here named Emily Burlingame that was really rude too that I reported. If u see one thats way too offensive be sure to report it. I did


Agreed..I have no problem reporting people. But what doesn't make sense to me is if you report them they suspend their account only for a fews days and then they are aloud to post again even if they have been suspended several times. Does anyone know why that is?

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there was another one on here named Emily Burlingame that was really rude too that I reported. If u see one thats way too offensive be sure to report it. I did


Agreed..I have no problem reporting people. But what doesn't make sense to me is if you report them they suspend their account only for a fews days and then they are aloud to post again even if they have been suspended several times. Does anyone know why that is?

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there was another one on here named Emily Burlingame that was really rude too that I reported. If u see one thats way too offensive be sure to report it. I did

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Quoting Jamie:

Sorry but its a public forum. And while I dont agree with some of the name calling, its a part of being on a publick forum. And it takes 2 people to argue. Not defending her but everyone talks about Amanda Passmore. Heres my question, if Amanda makes a rude comment and no one responds to it and ignores it she would have no one to argue with. Am I not right? If you dont like someones opinion on something or advice they give then ignore it. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and parenting style. And obviously people are coming here asking for advice, you arent always going to get what you want to hear otherwise we would all be raising babies the same way and we cant because babies are different and people are different. I know I am big bitch on this board sometimes(thats my personality its not going to change), but i do give honest advice and offer support when I feel its needed. So while you may not like what I have to say nothing says you have to respond to it. And by responding you are in a sense adding to any argument that may arise. So like I said, if you dont agree with something someone says about a post then dont respond.


There have been plently of posts were I don't agree with her and have not said 2 words to her but she is the one that starts with me and comments on something that I have written and of course I am going to defend myself and not let some snot nose talk to me the way she does.

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