dead beat dads

Keri - posted on 11/04/2009 ( 1 mom has responded )




Does anyone have a sperm donor (as i call them) that eighter wants nothing to do with the child or only wants something to do with the child when he feels like it. never helps out with anything the child needs. is never there for the child. cant get the courts to get off their butts and do something about it. Im with ya i started this community for moms who need to vent about this sort of stuff. so they know that they arent alone. so ill put my storie on here and maybe youll do the same.

i have three children, all different dads yes i know thats not good and yes i should of learned after the first but i wouldnt change having my kids for nothing their dads are not involed in their lives the only time that they want to be is when they feel like they should which is maybe once a year and at that time they just want to take them and i dont allow that they dont know my child and i will never allow my child to go with a person who doesnt care about them and they dont know. My children deserve better than that , they dont pay child support and they only call to start crap and make me mad they use my kids to get to me. well i have had enough with all the crap from them and as far as im concerned they will know who their dads are but they have a daddy who loves them and is there for them and would do anything to be with them i love my husband to be so much because it takes a man to get with a woman who has three kids and love them like his own. thats bad when a man who isnt the father is more of one than their bio dads could and would ever be. if you want to know more just let me know and ill share with you


Tara - posted on 01/26/2011




my babys dad only wants to see his son when it makes him look good but wont help provide for my son when he needs something like clothes and diapers and stuff like that to me he was just a sperm donor half the time when he calls it is about me and him getting back toghether not about my son and what my son needs i just happen to have a boyfriend who wants to be in my life and my kid life and as far as i am concern that is my son dad though not biological related to him because we are planning on getting married in the future and u r right it takes a man to get with a woman with a child and to love the kid as thier own i would love to hear more about it this is the first time a have read about someone with a similar situation to me

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