I miscarried twice in 2008

Heather - posted on 01/05/2009 ( 2 moms have responded )




Hey everyone!

My name is Heather, I am 33yrs old and I miscarried twice in 2008. I have a gorgeous 4yr old boy who was born 6weeks early in 2004...I got prego with him on birth control after being on it for 9yrs!

I have been with my fiance for 2.5yrs, we got prego April 2008, and i miscarried at 7weeks. Then I got prego again October 2008 and just miscarried at 11weeks, 4days. Pretty brutal seeing as I have a healthy 4yr old. But my doctor said that just bc I have had 2 m/c's doesnt mean I am in a higher percentage rate to have a 3rd which is good news. So we are holding off till after our wedding April 2009. I will be very scared when we do try again. I am very fertile lol...i just dont know why I cant keep the baby alive....my fiance and I can obviously both have kids so it really bugs me!

Thats my story!


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Jessica - posted on 01/17/2009




I'm sorry for your losses. I too lost two babies in 2008. I lost the first on February 1st at 9 weeks and the 2nd September 15th at 16 weeks. I am considered high risk now and we are thinking about stopping. We have a 3 year old boy and a 2 year old girl. They are healthy and happy so we are grateful! We just had a bunch of tests done this past week and are waiting the results.

If you ever need to talk, I'm here. :)


Meredith - posted on 01/11/2009




I am so sorry for you loses! I had a miscarriage in Dec 2007 and got pregnant right away(not planned). It was very scary..I was nervous the entire pregnancy. But I was blessed with my 2nd boy on Sept 24, 2008.  Good luck!  My thoughts and prayers will be with you. Congratulations on your upcoming wedding!

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