Going through your purse

Katherine - posted on 11/01/2010 ( 9 moms have responded )




Do you care if your husband does this? Mine would take money and my cards and it would infuriate me!!! What about you?


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What infuriates me is that my husband wont do it. I can be up to my eyes cooking dinner or changing a crappy nappy and my husband will say can you get me some money and i will go its in my purse help yourself but he refuses to go in my bag at all. I normally end up sending one of my kids to get my purse for me. What so scary about my handbag that he wont go in there though?

Pamela - posted on 11/17/2010




i don't mind if my man takes it if i tell him to but i hate it when he doesn't put the card back then i walk into the bank i can i can't get money out because he has my card and when i tell him i have $40 in there and he can have it for gas and he'll leave it for like 4 days so i think i have it and when i go to us it its gone because he all of a soddenly needed and didn't bother to tell me

Renae - posted on 11/12/2010




My husband cant find anything in my purse so he doesn't bother. I wouldn't care if he did as he wouldn't be taking anything major. If he took my card and didn't put it back that would be annoying, but he has his own. Taking cash and not telling me is very annoying! I rarely have cash on me and if I do I got it out for a specific purpose - and that purpose was not for his lunch money. BTW how hard is it to stop at the ATM on the way to work???

Melody - posted on 11/04/2010




My hubby will also hand me the purse and ask me to get cards/cash for him if he needs something. I don't go in his wallet either. It's never been an issue for us either way

Katherine - posted on 11/03/2010




See, that's my point. I would NEVER go in his wallet without asking. I don't know it's just how I am. I have nothing to hide, I just feel it's sneaky because he's left me with no card or cash standing at the gas station like an ass.

Beckydakota22 - posted on 11/03/2010




i have nothing to hideat all, but i also would get mad i was always brought up that you stay out of a womans purse..... if he needed something he could ask and get it just not take, i would never go in his wallet with out asking!

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I don't mind when my husband gets in my purse...I do not like when he takes money w/out warning me! When I keep very close tabs on my $$$ and I expect it to be there when I go shopping, my LOs are still young so they aren't getting in my purse taking things leaving me no reason to always check before making a purchase kinda thing...so if I expect it to be there and it isn't then I get pretty mad!!! He gets up before me so as long as I get a message saying "I took $10 for lunch" or whatever then I'm ok...you know, when I actually had $ in my wallet and we could afford him purchasing lunch rather then brown bagging it :)

Kendall doens't like to get in my purse though...and if he needs something will typically hand me my bag and have me get it. He also HATES when I get in his wallet!!! I think he has a stick up his butt...

Amber - posted on 11/02/2010




Mine doesn't go through my purse very often, but I don't care when he does. We share bank accounts and credit cards...so, it wouldn't matter if he grabbed something from my bag.
He's also always forgetting to grab his cell phone and it ends up in my purse because I pick it up. He'll grab it out of my bag. It's not a big deal. I have nothing to hide and it everything is ours, not mine or his.

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