I lost my daughter

Barkha - posted on 01/06/2018 ( 2 moms have responded )

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My very loving and innocent daughter committed suicide on 26 Nov 2017.She was just 22. I had a talk with her on the same day but she didn’t inform me anything but she had a talk with her friends and told them she is leaving this world but nobody was there to help her when they were too close to her house. She wrote a letter to me and my younger daughter and says sorry to us. It’s so difficult to leave without her. How can a child do it ? Every day, every time I think about her. Can anyone tell me how can I contact her?

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Karen - posted on 12/11/2018

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You contact her, just by talking to her each day, each hour if need be. Silence my be the only response as she has no voice, however look around you may see the simplest signs that she hears you. A breeze, a butterfly, a flickering light a smell. She did not do this to you, to cause you pain, she was running away from her own. Please do not blame her friends, who did not hear or take the threat seriously. We all think we have more time to change or help others. I pray you find some form of peace and also have a good support system, I found keeping my mind constantly busy at first was the only way to cope, I became a robot, eventually I did have to lean on others and not always try to be the strong one.

Alexandra - posted on 01/25/2018

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Sorry for your loss and the pain you live with. Try to get help, talk therapy could help you get a lot of things off your chest that you need to express. Contact her? Try praying, send the message through prayer that you want your daughter to hear. Write a letter to your daughter. Pray out loud and talk to her. God bless you and your family and your daughter. May you two be together in the next life.

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