My Two oldest daughters wete molested by Hubsand thier stepfather.

User - posted on 03/17/2018 ( 3 moms have responded )

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The pain is so awful , How could i have been so blind? I feel so awful.

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Dianetayman - posted on 08/19/2018

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It took me 11 years to feel kind of normal again. Because of what my child went through, he split, and developed many alters and the alters took on the pain. I did not get better until my child got better and it took 11 years. Most mothers do not get better until they know in their heart that their child is better. I sometimes think the mother is 1000x worse off emotionally and mentally than the child.

Dianetayman - posted on 08/19/2018

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I did not know for 5 years. No mother knows because if she had known she would have stopped it. We mothers are also victims of this and suffer from vicarious post traumatic stress disorder. The anguish we go through cannot be explained with words.

Alison - posted on 03/20/2018

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Hi Sasha, i understand the pain you are going through, my son was also abused but it was by his cousin, i dont think ive ever felt so lost, angry, hurt and confused, im struggling to think that i will ever feel normal again, im trying so hard to be strong but its so difficult and some days i just want to give up, i know i cant do that cause my son needs me more than ever now but do u ever wish that someone else would take over and and make everything ok, i know i do

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