Not so Healthy Relationship since having our baby

Michaela - posted on 06/05/2010 ( 3 moms have responded )




Is there anyone else out there that thier relationship has taken to the back burner and is having trouble keeping it alight? We seem to alot stuggles and i hate the fact that we are argue in front of her she is now starting to get angry at her dad when we argue. I just feel i do alot of the parenting my own and he wonders why she is such a mummy's girl. I thought our relationship was strong when we had her we were so excited even though we had alot of hccups throughout the pregnancies.
It just becoming so frustrating.. i am really not happy :(


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Stephanie - posted on 10/12/2010




Kaela this sounds like my hubby, we were 3 months pregnant when we married. He has went from being supportive holding doors caring about me ect. to NOTHING his reasoning behind why he does not want to help me? He hates washing dishes doing laundry ect so why should he have to do it? Lots more to this to long to go into details but I have had enough. Can not take much more of it. I am ready to let him go.

User - posted on 09/14/2010




my lil girl is 21 months and i'm getting ready to have our 2nd child. my fiance (who is 24 yrs and i'm 22) works hard work. when he's at home, he's "to busy" relaxing from a long week of work. he hardly helps out around the house or with our daughter. i just don't know want to do anymore.

Katherine - posted on 06/05/2010




Wow, this community is dead!!!!

Anyways, our relationship has always been really strained. I was pregnant before we were married so that was stressful from the beginning. We argue a lot in front of our children too. I have filed for divorce twice, it's that bad.

My husband was never around, he was off gambling and really didn't want a family until now: which of course in my mind is too late.

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