A muslim husband and problems...

Sara - posted on 03/14/2011 ( 3 moms have responded )




if your husband is more beautiful (but you are more career oriented and intelligent then him) then you and is not attending you very warmly and also never praises you how being a Muslim You should deal the situation?
Dont feel pissed after compromising whole 9 years and with three kids?
Because we are Muslims should we bear everything because it takes us to taqwa?
Please answer me all and Salam on all of You


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Elicia - posted on 03/03/2013




My husband helps around the house and works. I am a writer, but I work at home and watch the kids. When he comes home every night he occupies the kids while I cook. Sometimes he even cooks and does the dishes for me. And usually he does the laundry just to help me out on the weekend.

We personally believe in teamwork. In lightening each others work loads whenever possible. We found this helps our marriage and shows our children how to work together with chores and things in life in general.

I can only suggest talking it out. Possibly compromising on a way to handle household chores. His family does the same. The whole family cleans when they see something to be done. When we visit it is the same.

Good luck and I wish the best for you!!!

Julie - posted on 03/14/2011




salaam sabr (pacients) as a women we have to deall with many things being a wife,mother, its hard but inshaallah if we have pacients Allah swt will reward you for this talking about it with your husband may help or atlest get off your chest if you want a career may try and work from home depends on how old your kids are

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