changed mind about having a baby after miscarrage

Michelle - posted on 08/06/2012 ( 7 moms have responded )

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Hi ladies, a few months ago me and my husband were trying hard to have are second child, I got pregnant and not 2months later had a miscarrage. At first I was for trying again right away, but since gone back on birth control and now wants to wait indefinatly. I feel like it was a sign that we are not ready for another one, we are in the process of finding out if are son has a disabilty and wating to spend as much time helping him however he needs it. So what I'm asking is, is it normal and have any of you felt like this.

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Michelle - posted on 09/14/2012

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i miscarreaged with what would have been my thrid child and it was hard and at times still is but i have since had two more boys both healthy and happy. everyone takes it different and it will get easier and you may not want another now but as time goes by you may or maynot change your mind. my oldest boy the one before the misscarriage has speach issues and as long as we give him a little extra help he is a happy little boys and loves to play with his brothers. i hope things get better for you and your son will be alright

Clare - posted on 09/04/2012

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Yesss its v normal Ive had 7 miscarriages and GOD bledssed us with twins age 2 now. Dont ever give up.Sorry u have a worry with your son he will be all right too.

Just take one day at a time be grateful .How iworked with all the disappointments was Itrusted inGODS TIME and knew HE would take good care of us.

rEMEMBER THERE IS NEVER A CLOUD WITHOUT A SILVER LINING.

Iwish u the best CLARA

Brittney - posted on 09/02/2012

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Your definitely not the only one. A lot of people have this happen and they change their minds. You need time to heal.

Brittney - posted on 08/06/2012

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With my first miscarriage, I was very sad, but I really wanted a baby. After about 3 months, I became pregnant again and delivered a healthy baby girl 9 months later. It took almost a year for me to come to terms with the miscarriage and realize I didn't do anything, things like that happen for no reason at. The second miscarriage was just last month, but I know it was just not a viable pregnancy. We aren't trying for a second one.

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Michelle - posted on 09/14/2012

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Thank you Michelle and all the other wonderful women, for the great words and sharing your stories with me, it gets easier each day, and I'm just so thankful for my sweet boy, he is my world.

Michelle - posted on 09/02/2012

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thank you brittney for the story it's always good too know your not the only one. A mercies I'm not sure what photos you want to sent me but we can just talk on here.

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