Almost lost the baby because of babys father/family...

Alexa - posted on 06/25/2010 ( 2 moms have responded )




So the babys father & his family have put putting a ridiculous amount of stress on me which has been causing me to have anxiety attacks all the time. (Denying that the baby is theirs, mid-night phone calls screaming at me for a dna test, seeing me in public and laughing at me... And this is after being very close to his family for the entire year and a half we were together, and all through high school.) The other night I went into preterm labour, (I'm about 20 weeks) I was having contractions. Luckily, the contractions stopped, and baby is okay now. I feel I should cut off contact with the father because he doesnt care if I lose the baby or not and he continues to do nothing to help this stressfull situation and right after i told him about the preterm labour he tried to start a stressful conversation. Would it be bad if I stopped contact? I want to do whats best for my baby but I'm afraid if I stop contact with him he wont want to see the baby in the future. I dont know what to do. Advice?


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Aicha - posted on 08/30/2010




I would avoid contact and change your phone number if possible also at night or when you rest turn off your phone sorry you have so much stress in your life

Kylie - posted on 07/31/2010




im in the same boat as you but not preterm labour .... do whats best for you and your unborn dont see him cut complete contact off you dont need the stress let alone a male denying the baby.... my first childs dad dont see him coz he dont wanna take time of work to travel and im pregnant with my second..... its no lose to my son its lose to his dad as he misses out not anyone else... chin up

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