How did your sex drive change during pregnancy and after?

The big changes your body experiences during pregnancy are bound to alter your sex life and many moms worry if what they are experiencing is normal. What changed for your libido during and after pregnancy?

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My eldest daughter is nearly 4 and it took nearly 2years to even want be touched again by my now husband, my youngest daughter is 10months and to be honest i dont care if i dont have sex ever again. We have had sex about 5 times in 10months, but that was to satisfy him.
Our eldest is a terror, constantly fighting with her to do things, her shouting at me, running off throwing tantrums in shops etc and all my other half does is go on the ps3 when we get home. Then my youngest is teething and is up atleast once a night in pain, and he stays asleep.
Im the one who puts both girls to bed, reads to them etc.
When he has finished his game he then is wanting sex, im just too tired but apparently being a stay at home mum is a doddle compared to working 9hrs a day, when i tell him im tired all i get is him moaning.

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nothing changed at all lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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While I was pregnant with my son. my libido was stil pretty high...but he was my first pregnancy and I looked pretty still... even when I was big, I still thought my pregnant form was beautiful. After my daughter it is a totally different situation....My libido is almost nil. I put it down to the fact that I have gained somewhere around 60 lbs... and I dont turn myself on anymore so how can I expect my hubby to be turned on...lol... which is completely unreasonable i know...but thats how it works for me...so I have a treadmill now and have lost about 10 lbs so far and the high it gives you when you are doing your workout makes me feel a little bit more like the confident woman he fell in love with. Its funny but they say confidence makes a woman sexy to a man... but it also works for the woman... and I sorely miss my confidence... hopefully I can keep to my exersize regimen and lose the weight and fit into my old sexy clothes and be the sexy sassy thing my hubby married, the one who liked sex with the lights on...lol... not the lights off girl I have become.

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Mine changed to the extreme and it went to nothing after my daughter was born. My husband ended up divorcing me because of it. It is a real problem and 25 years ago there was not any support ouot there so I was on my own alone with a 18 month old. Good luck and I hope times have changed and you find the answers you need.

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How are you now

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I've always had an extremely high sex drive. During pregnancy, (after the first 3-4 months of EXTREME morning sickness,) I got a real taste of what "extremely high sex drive" truly means. It didn't help that my husband (now ex-husband) and I were going through a real rough patch and he wanted nothing (physically) to do with me. I was crawling the walls. After my daughter was born he still wanted nothing to do with me and I just gave up. I (some of you may've read this before,) ballooned up to 230 pounds. I was MISERABLE.

The worst part is, that after the baby is born, you're supposed to be happy! Once you get the green light to have sex again everything is supposed to just fall into place somehow, magically.

It doesn't. Having a baby is incredibly time-consuming and (especially if you're breastfeeding,) it's a terrible toll on your body. Add to that self-image issues, (even that last extra ten pounds or so that you can't seem to lose can make a world of difference for women about how they view their body,) sleep deprivation... It's amazing that any of us ever have sex again!

I'm not sure how graphic we're allowed to be, but we *are* talking about sex, here... so I'd like to dispense a little advice to those of you lovely ladies that can't seem to get your groove back...

Mutual masturbation. Yeah, I said it. Sex is like a muscle... the more you use it the more it wants to be used and the stronger it gets. A lot of people say sex isn't everything in a relationship. It isn't. Let's not downplay its importance entirely because it makes us feel better for denying ourselves and our partners that pleasure, though. Healthy couples need sex. Unless both partners are entirely asexual, (which is weird, unusual, or medically rare, like a unicorn with two horns and zebra stripes,) sex is an important outlet for maintaining a healthy, committed, emotionally close relationship.

With mutual masturbation there's that feeling of closeness, that emotional connection, without as much of the work. There's still that stress release, the Oxycontin rush (those chemicals that help you stay in love with your partner and bring the two of you emotionally closer,) and you don't have to feel like you need to bring your "A" game to the bedroom, 'cuz, let's face it, you're exhausted!

Obviously most of you enjoyed a good sex life before you had your babies... (otherwise how would they be here, now) so hopefully this helps at least one person. To anyone who I've offended, my apologies.

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Hi there, I wanted to vote on your answer, but for some reason it won't let me vote (on anyones, don't get paraniod!) because I thought it was fab! Hope you find someone special to match your sex drive. Mine has disappeared, but I might just take your advice. My reason is we're sooooooo tired, although my husband is much more interested than me. I was insatiable during pregnancy though!! x

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my kids are 12y, 14y and 17y. but i vividly remember sex drive during pregnancy and after childbirth. i had no libido where before it was great. it caused a lot of problems between my husband and i. i hope doctors are dealing with this seriously these days. back then i was on my own. i didn't understand what was happening to me and my husband didn't either. it was a tough 5 or so years! there needs to be a rememdy or solution for this. unfortunately lots of mothers don't say anything and suffer through it.. it should be addressed in the doctors office. it's very lonely and you start to feel bad about yourself. you worry about what your spouse thinks, nevermind the loss you're feeling. i'm not sure what they do these days. they did nothing back then. there should be information pamphlets or even support groups for this. I'm in my 40's and my libido is great. but how i wish someone would have helped me back then!!

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I had the same problem Kate. I'm in my 40's and my libido is fine now. But after childbirth I felt exactly the same way and felt guilty.

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Hello
What a great and wonderful testimony.
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Hello
What a great and wonderful testimony.
I am Candace Jane from Spain Madrid. I want to use this golden medium to appreciate Dr. Akereco a great spell caster for helping me reunite my relationship with my ex lover when he ended and turned back on me for quite a long time now. When i found this man call Dr Akereco email drakerecospellcaster@gmail.com on the net i email him immediately i did all he ask me to provide wish i prove all for him.. He performed a spell for me and within 48 hours after the spell had been casted according to what Dr Akereco told me that's what happen just like a magic to me up till now low and be hold I receive a text from my ex Husband saying that he is sorry for the pains and tears that he had caused me and that he won't do such thing to me again in his life. I was surprised but later accepted him back again. Anyone that is in the same line of problem or different one and want to contact him should happily contact him now on this email address: drakerecospellcaster@gmail.com

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Hello,
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my husband of 9years left me just because i could not give him A child, i did all i could to make sure i give him a child, i even went to an extent of forcing him to have sex with me every night but could not work. not untill one evening when i was browsing through the internet, i saw a comment on how a woman in same problem like mine was made home by A man called Dr Alusi. i read about him and decided to contact him for help, i did as he ask me to do but i was still wondering how can someone just bring back my love he don't even know but i keep doing as he ask me to do. i was very surprise one morning my husband came and started begging me to come back to his life. at first i pretend to be angry then i accepted him back. Dr Alusi also cast a spell for me to make me have children and as i speak right now i am a mother with 3kids. if there is any one out there who needs his help you can contact him through his personal EMAIL: alusispellcaster@gmail.com. i wish you good luck

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Hi everyone am nacy stresser i will never forget the help the Dr jaja of jaja12demonspell render to me in my marital life. i have been married for 4 years now and my husband and i love each other very dearly . after 3 years of our marriage my husband suddenly changed, he was having an affair with a lady outside,i notice it then i was praying for divine intervention the thing became more serious i told my pastor about it we prayed but nothing happen. my husband just came home one day he pick up his things and left me and the kids to his mistress outside at this time i was confuse not knowing what to do again because i have lost my husband and my marriage too. i was just checking my mails in the office when i saw someone sharing her testimony on how the Sherine priest of jaja12demonspell help her out with her marital problems so i contacted the email of the sherine priest called Dr jaja i told him my problem and i was told to be calm that i have come to the right place that i should fill some information concerning my self i did after 30 minutes he called me again congratulating me that my problems will be solve within 48 hours. he told me what went wrong with my husband and how it happen.that they will restored my marriage but i will make a free donation to their Jaja12demons home anything my heart told me. to my greatest surprise my husband came to my office begging me on his knees that i should find a place in my heart to forgive him i quickly ask him up that i have forgiven him.friends your case is not too hard why don't you give these great sherine priest called Dr jaja a try they work surprises because i know they will also bring back your husband. contact him via jaja12demonspell@gmail.com

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Today has being the most happiest day of my life after 1 year of sadness and sorrow without being with the one i love, i tried all my possible best to make sure i make my lover happy but it never seems to work out well it was like am doing everything in vain but all thanks to Dr OSAUYI for coming to change all my worries and sadness to Joy. i knew the great man when i read some wonderful reviews about Dr OSAUYI how he has helped a lots of people on there relationship problem i was reading a magazine which then i saw great testimonies as well which then i decided not to waste time because i have missed my lover so much i decided to contact him and share all my problem with him which then he told me not to worry that he assures me that within 48 hours everything would be sorted out i believed Dr OSAUYI so much because i believe he can't fail me but truly Dr OSAUYI never failed me a man that stand on his worlds is really a man,my husband who left me for good a year plus replied my text and returned my calls and asked me to please forgive him i was so happy am so grateful to Dr OSAUYI for what he has done for me if you are there pass the same problem or any kinds of problem just contact the great man on OSAUYILOVESPELL@YAHOO.COM call his mobile number +2348100515075.

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MY TESTIMONY ON HOW MY HUSBAND CAME BACK TO ME AGAIN,
My husband broke up with me 5 months ago, and forced me to sign the divorce papers, and i was completely heartbroken. And I could not get back into any shape emotionally. because my heart and hope was completely lost. Because i love him so much I could not think, eat, sleep, or walk without the ache in my heart. And the thoughts in my head were all about him and the pains that i went through while seeing him with another woman taught me lessons. I so wish that I could have changed the clock back and never to have experienced the pains he made me went through. I Thank God for this astonishing and brilliant NATURAL LOVE spell caster that came to my rescue. Wow! This spell caster has helped me so much. DR. OGBODU guaranteed me an urgent 24 hours NATURAL LOVE spell casting, of which i accepted it. Shockingly! this month on the 4TH OF AUGUST 2014, my husband called me back with lots of apologies after 24 hours which DR. OGBODU assured me, and he did everything possible to withdraw the divorce papers which was previously ongoing with the power of this miracle working spell caster. My husband and i have been living contentedly since this spell caster reunited us together with his love spells. Thank you so so so much Dr. OGBODO for your powerful spells. expressions are not sufficient to say thank you. here is his email address and PHONE NUMBER: Email: (ogboduspellhome@gmail.com) or +2347050485554...contact him today and get your problems solved once and for all.

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During my pregnancy my libido was very low I was nt even keen 2have sex was tired most of the time and jst wanted to sleep,I gave birth 2my 3month old daughter and I thought it wud get better after giving birth but it got only worse,my sexual feelings are really dead wen my partner touches me I feel nothing nd the thought of sex irritates me!Plz help wat can I get to drink myb supplements or anythn coz I'm not even breastfeeding!!*sad*

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I had twins a little over a year ago.
The only time I can honestly say i wasn't interested in sex was the last trimester of my pregnancy, maybe it's my age but I've never lost my sex drive.

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Like most of the comments i've read I can see i'm not alone in this. I am a mother of 3 children age 9, 6 & 2years 5 months and I will be having my fourth child next month. I would ay that I had a preety healthy sex drive until I started having children. To me sex after having my first child as been more of an obligation to my marriage and for my partner and never for me. Where i'm from talking about sex in the open even with hubby is awkward. I am a working mum and sometimes I think that my work contributes to my problem as after work I get home to work on my children again whereas hubby gets home, gets fed, get on the net and decides he needs sex.....I love my children very much but dread th time after birth when he will need some attention as well!!!

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Its almost non existent, mine is almost 2 yrs and I still havent seen a return :(

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when i was pregnant with my son who is now 4 my sex drive didnt change, i didnt want to be touched by my husband. when pregnant with my two girls who are 3 & 1 changed i seen to feel alot more sexy and comfortable in my body and seem to not mind it as much as i did the first time round. but now i have three kids. im not even up for it i go to bed and turn the other way. oh how kids change ur world ... for the better tho.

kind regards, Khloe

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Mine didn't really change that much- I wanted it just as much as I did in high school after the baby, but due to baby needs we couldn't. I'd say the most important thing to remember: moms need BREAKS!
I think the fact that the mom has to take care of a little one all the time doesn't necessarily make her mind wander too much....let dad take the baby and have some time to yourself and see if that doesn't bring the libido back. That is my best advice!

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Before I got pregnant my libido wasn't really high. Earlier in our relationship it was high but later on randomly it would hurt to have sex. Like one night it wouldn't and the next it would. It made me not want to try because it felt like I was losing my virginity every other time. It sucked. But about once I was 2 mths. pregnant it seemed like every time we tried to have sex it hurt at the beginning which just killed the mood for me. later on my libido increased more but we didn't try to have sex because it hurt even to do foreplay...which really freaks me out because I want to have sex. My son is 2 weeks old right now so I'm hoping that everything will be fine when we try next month

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We had a pretty great sex life before I got pregnant..but because we had 5 miscarriages prior to getting PG w/our DD, we didn't have sex until I hit the 12wk mark, and then, I was so scared it wasn't fun for either of us. When I was 16wks, my husband left for the police academy and was gone for the next 24 weeks. My libido completely dropped off, and when he was home on the weekends, he was exhausted. We did other things like cuddling, kissing, making sure we showed each other love, but we didn't have sex until I was 6wks postpartum. When I was given the green light to "go" we must've had sex for the entire month straight. Now, we usually have sex 1x a week. It may not be a lot, but it works for us. My libido is so much more then my husbands..I'd love for him to get his testerone checked, but he refuses. So, 1x a week it is.

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I am a 45 year old first-time mom and I had my baby girl in November of 2010. Since that time, my partner and I have had sex exactly 3 times, 3 times in 15 months and NEVER because I wanted to. This is very depressing for both of us - for him because he wants it and for me because I absolutely do NOT. The thought of having sext has repulsed me beyond words ever since my baby was born. Prior to becoming pregnant with her, I was considered a "freak" if you know what I mean. I do not understand what has happened to me and I am very concerned that I can't even just go through the motions when my partner wants to. I have to keep saying to him, "I just can't and I am really sorry." It is so bad that I want to tell him it's OK if he finds someone else to have sex with. I know there must be other women who have experienced this but I don't really have many women friends to discuss this with. During pregnancy I was the same as I was before pregnancy, I pretty much wanted it all the time. But now I honestly cannot ever imagine wanting it again. Thanks and best of luck to any of you who are going through the same thing we are.

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Wow, Mindy. I'm so sorry to hear that. Have you thought about possibly talking to your doctor about this? It seems like there's something (hormonal) wrong, it's not normal to *never* want to have sex, especially when you had such an awesome sex drive before having your daughter!

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The last time I had sex I was 19 years old & I was 4 months pregnant. Now I'm 21 & my son is a year & 3 weeks old. Being pregnant gave me no sex drive whatsoever, it actually took my sex drive away!

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I had an extremely high sex drive during my pregnancy until I got to about 7 months b/c I got so big. After giving birth and being stitched back up it was really painful to have sex....almost like a born again virgin. My sex drive has never really returned to normal since having my son but both of us are always so tired and now it happens 2-3 a month which is pretty sad.

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When i was pregnant , the first three months i didn`t want sex, i was feeling weak and having nauseas. After the fkourth month I had a lot libido, but my husband didnt want to touch me , he felt guilty to hurt the baby.

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My libido always fluctuated with each pregnancy. But i remember that after giving birth with my second baby...even though i wanted to have sex for his sake, i just could not get wet. I was so dry the whole time that it was pain all the way.Lubricants didn't hep much. In the end it just died a natural death till i got preg with my 3rd born. after his birth, the sex drive became so high and hubby couldn't catch up and it frustrated me...LOL. Now i know that it changes and depends on each baby. I am preg again with my 4th child and sex drive is just fine. I am just worried that after birth it might just die again yet i am not planning to have another baby to help return it during pregnancy! i wonder how i will cope. Thanks guys for sharing this coz it makes me feel that i am not alone...:)

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I have a 4 yr old and 20 mth old, and I haven't enjoyed sex since I first got pregnant. My libido was not high to begin with, but completely disappeared the moment I got pregnant until now. Ofcourse consideration for my hubby meant we had sex regularly, but for me it's just something on my list to get done. It has greatly affected our relationship, especially since I just can't put in the effort anymore! Sad thing is, I'm reaching a point where I don't really care that this prob is driving my hubby and I apart. i just feel relief that I get another night sex free!

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My children are 4 months, and 2years 4 months. I have a boy and a girl. We used to have sex all the time before we got prego, my sex drive never really came ,back after our daughter, and now that our son is around, it still hasn't really come around. Its really starting to be a commonly talked about problem with our relationship, but we both still insist to each other that its just something that needs to be worked out. I don't know what to do about it I feel really bad and he kind of understands, but its so hard. I don't know if I should go to a dr and maybe get some kind of prescription for a hormonal balance or something......Im just completely at a loss.....any advice please help!!

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