when spanking for discipline do you put over your knee or how and bare bottom or not?

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I spank over-the-knee with my hand on the bare bottom. My daughter hasn't needed to go there yet, but my son has had two sessions on the side of my bed. I think it makes perfect sense to spank on the bare. Why would I not wish to actually see what I was doing?

In both cases, I gave a dozen smacks (age X 2) from cheek to cheek, finishing with three down low where the bottom and legs come together. The spanking stings and reddens the bum, and the tears are real. But my son knew why I was spanking him, and the spankings he got taught him a lesson. If that isn't the object of the exercise, I don't know what is.

Bonham - posted on 06/08/2016

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My wife does the spanking in our house. 2 girls 16 and 14, I think they are to old for me to be present. As she spanks over the knee hairbrush, pj's down before bed. The squeals make me feel guilty sometimes. My wife says it's the only way they will learn, who is right? Comments appreciated.
Daniel and Harriet.
danielmann53@Gmail.com

Anna - posted on 11/15/2012

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I'm a firm believer of spanking. That is what's wrong with kids now they don't get them anymore. My daughter will be 10 soon and I use a paddle like they have in schools, but not bare bottomed. I make her grab her ankles. She's too big to put over my knee. After a few of those, you won't have to use it any more just the threat of it works.

Michael - posted on 11/27/2013

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I've smacked my daughters bottom she defies me sometimes I've had her over my knee tonite

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 11/15/2012

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Ok, WAS sufficient...mine are 18 & 14 now

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Suzi - posted on 05/24/2018

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With us, spankings are always bare bottom, and always performed in the bathroom, position either otk or bent over the side of the tub.
Spankings started when dd was two years old. I used to say I would never spank a teenager - I used to be susceptible to the crazy superstition that all parent/offspring physical contact somehow changes its meaning with the onset of adolescence. Fortunately experience overcame that belief.
PS: for Bridget, Tony, Magic, Vegan et al - spanking is not a sexual act, it is crazy to claim it is. Also: the "bottom" is neither generative nor gender-specific. You allege "sexual abuse" when sexual parts of the body are not even involved?! Be warned - neither you nor any legislature may stretch the meanings of words to include the diametric opposite of what they actually mean!

SPANKEESPANKER - posted on 04/11/2018

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GOOD JOB
EVERYTHING YOU SAID IS TRUE
AND IF YOU SAFE ONE KID FROM BEING ABUSE OR HIT OR SPANKED
THEN YOU DID YOUR JOB

SPANKEESPANKER - posted on 04/08/2018

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JESSICA HOW ABOUT YOU GIVE ME A SPANKING
AND LET SEE HOW EFFICTIVE YOUR SPANKINGS ARE.

SPANKEESPANKER - posted on 04/08/2018

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MARTHA HOW ABOUT YOU GIVE ME A SPANKING
AND LET SEE HOW EFFICTIVE YOUR SPANKINGS ARE.

SPANKEESPANKER - posted on 03/31/2018

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SO ANOTHER I WAS ABUSE BY MY NON LOVING PARENTS
SO LET ME REPEAT THAT AND SHOW MY OWN KIDS I HAVE NO PROBLEM ABUSING THEM

SPANKEESPANKER - posted on 03/31/2018

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LET SEE HOW AFFICTIVE YOUR SPANKINGS ARE CHELSEA.
AND I WILL COME TO YOU AND YOU CAN SPANK ME.

SPANKEESPANKER - posted on 03/31/2018

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LET SEE HOW AFFICTIVE YOUR SPANKINGS ARE MARTHA.
AND I WILL COME TO YOU AND YOU CAN SPANK ME.

SPANKEESPANKER - posted on 03/31/2018

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WHY NOT SPANK ME SANDRA
IF YOUR JUST HANDING OUT SPANKINGS LIKE THERE CANDY
AND WILLY NILLY

Suzi - posted on 03/29/2018

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Routine I learned from my parents - bare bottom spanking over the lap, followed by suppository or enema

Michelle_williams - posted on 03/19/2018

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if you are going to spank your child or children then it makes sense to bare the bottom so that:
a. it hurts more
b. you can examine the marks etc.
c. because the ritual baring helps make it more of a memorable event.

Both my children are bared when they are strapped or caned

SPANKEESPANKER - posted on 03/08/2018

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STEPHINIE HOW ABOUT A SPANKING FOR ME.
WE WILL SEE HOW AFFECTIVE YOU GOOD SPANKINGS ARE.
YOU CAN REACH ME AT
BADBOYSPANKED@MAIL.COM
SSPANKER@MAIL.COM

SPANKEESPANKER - posted on 03/08/2018

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ROBIN HOW ABOUT A SPANKING FOR ME.
WE WILL SEE HOW AFFECTIVE YOU GOOD SPANKINGS ARE.
YOU CAN REACH ME AT
BADBOYSPANKED@MAIL.COM
SSPANKER@MAIL.COM

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Mary, when people disparage over-the-knee spanking for one reason or another, it always seems to me that they somehow feel the need to reinvent the wheel. Only the lack of a couch or a bed should keep a mother from taking even an older child across her lap with their bottom suitably positioned and fully accessible for smacking, paddling or strapping.

SPANKEESPANKER - posted on 02/12/2018

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MAYBE YOU SHOULD GIVE ME A SPANKING JUST TO SEE
HOW AFFECTIVE YOUR SPANKINGS ARE.

SPANKEESPANKER - posted on 02/12/2018

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MAYBE YOU SHOULD GIVE ME A SPANKING JUST TO SEE
HOW AFFECTIVE YOUR SPANKINGS ARE.

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When my daughtere were younger, I must lower their panties in order to spank them on bare bottoms.
After that, I insist they have to take off their panties for the spanking.
Talking with other spanking moms, I started to insist they have to strip themselves.
(I mean: fully nudity).

Mary - posted on 02/05/2018

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I agree, over the knee is the best way to spank. It enables the spanker to hold them still
with one hand and apply the smacks accordingly.

SPANKEESPANKER - posted on 01/21/2018

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MAYBE YOU SHOULD GIVE ME A SPANKING JUST TO SEE
HOW AFFECTIVE YOUR SPANKINGS ARE.

SPANKEESPANKER - posted on 01/21/2018

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MAYBE YOU SHOULD GIVE ME A SPANKING JUST TO SEE
HOW AFFECTIVE YOUR SPANKINGS ARE.

SPANKEESPANKER - posted on 01/13/2018

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DO YOU SPANK YOUR HUSBAND WHEN HE ACTS UP?
OR DOES HE SPANK YOU WHEN YOU ACT UP?

Maceylynn - posted on 01/08/2018

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Me and my boyfriend both spank the older 2 children. How they are spanked depends on what they have done. Our youngest gets popped on her hand. He’s way more strict then I am with the 3 kids though because he’s in the marines. Sometimes they are spanked bare by Him normally I try to spank over pants

Jelena - posted on 01/06/2018

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Spankeespanker how did you guess. My husband did spank my naughty bottom until I was crying like a baby and unable to comfortably

SPANKEESPANKER - posted on 01/06/2018

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DO YOU SPANK YOUR HUSBAND WHEN HE ACTS UP?

OR DOES HE SPANK YOU WHEN YOU ACT UP?

SPANKEESPANKER - posted on 01/06/2018

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DO YOU SPANK YOUR HUSBAND WHEN HE ACTS UP?
OR DOES HE SPANK YOU WHEN YOU ACT UP?

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