Do you or you partner have any fetishes ?

Emma - posted on 05/14/2010 ( 13 moms have responded )




The top ten fetishes in reverse order.



Men and women both agreed that taut tummies make them somewhat crazy. But others said that they would never bed a potential partner if their tummies protruded or hung loosely.

Some guys weren't as picky and admitted that they liked it when a woman had a tummy with a teensy-weensy little pot. One gentleman was very adamant about needing to release himself on a woman's stomach or his experience simply wouldn't be pleasurable.


Body piercing

This one was quite popular with the younger crowd (18-35). Everything from bellybuttons, tongues and nipples to eyebrows and penises was not only acceptable, but for a specific few, it was a prerequisite.

One guy told us that he loves tongue rings because after being pleasured by a girl who had one, he couldn't go back to the "ordinary." The feeling of the cool object rubbing against his penis while her hot mouth engulfed him "felt like heaven."


Leather, rubber, vinyl, latex

Men seem to love material; perhaps not the actual feel of it, but the rather pornographic quality it gives to a sexual encounter. Although men look to settle down with a sweet woman, most will forever have a fixation with that "bad girl" look.

"Watching a woman move around in anything tight and shiny is a tease in itself," says one gentleman. Another man told me that his girlfriend's entire wardrobe consists of latex and leather.


Domination and submission

To my amazement, most women dominate and most guys submit. HELLO! A lot of women said they love to order their men around in bed like slaves and spank them, smack them, and even penetrate them with a strap-on.

Guys, on the other hand, enjoy submitting to women and being told what to do. I guess most of them are probably tired of performing all the time. Everything I mentioned that the women do -- well, the men enjoy having those things done to them. Welcome to the new millennium.


Feet and hands

You knew this fetish was coming didn't you? Men enjoy licking, sucking, kissing, and biting women's feet almost exclusively. Some guys simply can't date a woman if she has ugly feet or toes.

Women, I was surprised to learn, love to suck on men's fingers and some can even orgasm off that alone. "There's something about pleasuring a man's finger as though it was a penis that gives me orgasmic pleasure," said one woman from Seattle.


Fingernails and lipstick

It's the cliche of the '80s: red lipstick and long, red-lacquered fingernails. Well, guess what? Some guys are still obsessed with that whole thing. They enjoy feeling a woman's nails running down their backs.

As well, they like kissing a woman and smudging her lipstick all over both their faces. Why? Because it gives them the feeling of having adulterated sex, i.e. sex with a prostitute.


Braids, ponytails, pigtails

Hair, it's no surprise, was a very big fetish among guys. Blond, brunette, redheaded, braided, long, short, thick, curly, straight... you name it, they thought of it. But braids, pigtails and ponytails caught my attention. I have two theories as to why some men are into pigtails.

First, they have a preference for younger women (to say the least) and because of the illusion that pigtails and ponytails emanate, the fetishists feel as though they are fulfilling their desires.

Second, when the hair is tied up in these various ways, it could resemble a whip, to a certain extent. "Women can whip me with their hair: the ultimate turn-on." said one man from Boston. I can definitely see the latter example as working.

Some women have a fetish involving no hair: bald men. They love rubbing a man's bald head whilst in a passionate embrace. Did you hear that Costanza ? You're actually preferred by women.



Believe it or not, many variants of water were popular with both men and women. Many women declared that they enjoyed sex best when they could hear or be in running water. Whether it be rain, the shower or even an opened faucet -- so long as they heard water of some sort.

Although it's not exactly water, many women (and some men) absolutely obsess over thunder and lightning. "The powerful sound and the sudden flashes of light give my body a feeling of empowerment. My husband and I make plans to meet whenever we know that a storm is in effect," said a woman from Colorado.


Golden showers

I know this one doesn't sound very inviting, but it was a popular one. Some guys love to watch a woman urinate on them as a method of foreplay. Other guys like to relieve themselves on women before they can actually get down to business.

Why? Well, the reason for this also deals with submission. Being peed on is somewhat degrading and if you allow someone to do it to you, then you're submitting and if you do it to someone else, then they are succumbing to you.


Voyeurism and exhibitionism

A lot of guys admitted that they couldn't get off with their partner unless they were watching pornography or another couple in the act. Even if they witnessed two people having sex or caught some erotic movies on television accidentally (yeah, right) when not with their partner, they had to masturbate.

Only a minute amount of women admitted that they are voyeuristic to the point where they needed to see sex whilst engaging in it. Oddly enough, however, quite a few women like being watched . One woman from New Orleans wrote, "I make sure to open the blinds fully before I make love with my partner."


BT - posted on 03/12/2015




To Continue....
Number 1 - Voyeurism and Exhibitionism.. I got in to Exhibitionism (Ex - to save typing) early in life. From the age of 4 until about 7 or 8, I just couldn't keep my clothes on during a hot summers day, probably started with a wading pool in our backyard and not wanting to go through the motion of going inside to get my suit on. But this took on a bigger challenge for my mother when I would start walking around our residential neighborhood completely nude and didn't care if the boys saw me.. and truth be told, I Know they LOVED it.
While in my last year University we were married and I was in Human Kinetics. I was taking a shower after a gymnastics class one afternoon and when I turned around there was this full dressed guy standing at the entrance to the showers... no one else was near and I froze for about a minute while he just stood there staring at me... then I finally said, "I know you're not supposed to be in here"... I took one step toward my towel which was on rack behind him and he took off.
I wasn't embarrassed but more excited about the incident - and I did report it to the administrators and they put extra staff on in the form of same sex unpaid interns and it never happened again.
After hearing the door close, I stood in front of a full length mirror and stared at my 22 year old nude body and thought of the way he must have seen it... I started flicking my nipples with my fingers while taking in the sight of my tits and hairy, yet trimmed pussy. I turned a bit so I could look at my still wet ass and what he had seen as I rinsed off... not really knowing how long he had been standing there. I was so excited. I was somewhat surprised to my initial reaction to the incident.
Hubby was working midnights at the time and it was nothing for me to take a bus home to our apartment, as he was sleeping during the day. But during that bus ride, I couldn't get over not only how my knees were shaking, but how wet my pussy was.
When I got off the bus and walked in to our apartment I could feel that my panties were absolutely soaked as if I had peed myself.
I know I started stripping off even before the door closed behind me, but made sure it did... and I went right to hubby and woke him with tongue action down his throat and then right down to his cock (He LOVED waking up this way).
As i climbed on top of him I had to tell him right away... and he started bucking right back at me as it obviously turned him on incredibly (Not a jealous bone in his body).
This is when it actually hit me.... I enjoyed it !!! I enjoyed acting as some Voyeur's (voy - to save typing) Ex. I don't believe I ever saw him again on campus, he may have been with a visiting basketball team or he may have just been someone from the neighborhood.
Another time at University we went to a house party with my class... and being not enough chairs, I sat on the floor with other female classmates... I had on a denim knee length skirt with white sexy Lycra panties which really hugged my pussy quite well, I think there could have camel toe for the viewing... one of my male classmates was tipsy very early and in a mock argument he pushed me by my shoulder and I fell back raising my right leg high in the air and sending my open toed wedge sandals across the room... this got almost everyone's attention, including my husband who behind this guy... I was a little dazed, but I know my leg stayed in the air for at least a 3 to 5 count... hubby witnessed me sharing an upskirt with about all 15 people there and it turned him on Incredibly... and then Me when he told me of his reaction. We weren't really mad at the guy, but feigned minor disappointment... yet between hubby and I, we were silently thanking him for letting me give unintended upskirt.
This just so happened to have happened a week after the shower incident... after reading some articles in Men's magazines, we realized were hooked on Exhibitionism !
Once I took my final exams, we finally went on our honeymoon up north to cottage country - about two weeks before elementary and high schools let out for the summer.
For the final leg of the ride, I wore peach colored crotchless panties, a thigh length halter dress and those same open toed wedge sandals.
That was the first time I rode topless in the car (it was easy by just pulling on those draw string around my neck of the dress and let the front fall in my lap) and the first time I used a toy on my pussy while in a moving car... it was also the first time a trucker laid on his horn in appreciation for me showing
We also went for walks in the woods surrounding the cottage and I had stripped off and had hubby carry my clothes the first time... and then bravely walked away from my clothes at the base of a tree the other times we went for walks
At this point I am Absolutely Hooked !
I have since ridden in the passenger seat with hubby while stripping out of wind or track suit only to reveal fishnet body stockings (nipples pointing through and crotchless). I have done this more than a dozen times once we entered the main highway and maybe not covering back up with the track suit until we were pulling in to the driveway of the hotel
I LOVE wearing outfits on long car trips... I have worn both almost knee length and mid thigh length wrap skirts and always commando... and definitely braless... getting out of the car prior to our arrival to purchase a few groceries for our suite... hubby loved it when the wind blew the thigh length wrap skirt when we exited the store in SW Michigan as we made our way to a Chicago suburb.
In queen and king size beds in suites we have stayed in... while freshly shaved Smooth and Bald... he has blindfolded me and tied me up spread eagle to the bed in a sitting position with lots of pillows... turned on one back light... opened the curtains... and left the suite for up to 45 minutes (went out and smoked or went to a nearby convenience store or just went down and a drink at the bar)... DAMN, did that ever make me wet and I couldn't do anything about it !
We were "caught" as hubby was feverishly servicing me once as we had stayed in our favorite cabin at a golf resort... a day bed on the the front porch (which was locked) all lights were out in the cabin, but my moaning may have summoned a Voy as he walked by on the path about 30 feet in front of the cabin... and like the guy in the shower, we have no idea how long he was there for... he made a dash to get the heck out of there when hubby looked up (with pussy juice all over his face) when he must have gotten too close to glass window of the door and made a noise... but we Both had Incredible Orgasms from That, and hoped to repeat itself the next night, but didn't
So much for Item 1 from the list... there are lot more episodes but I must stop now as I think you may get the picture... I LOVE strangers seeing me as I probably will never see them again

BT - posted on 03/12/2015




I can't say that we engage in all of the top 10 as listed. A few of them, yes. But please permit me to add a few things we also enjoy:
Number 7 - We enjoy a mild form of domination... no pain what-so-ever, but that strap on play has always intrigued us, but we just haven't followed through with it. I have penetrated hubby's ass with my vibes (both thin and thicker models) and anal beads that I LOVE to use on myself. He is very eager to get on all fours at my command with a pillow under him to extend his ass further in the air so I can tongue fuck his hole as I pull back on his cock and make him cum (using either saliva or KY liquid, or both).
I enjoy it when he blindfolds me and ties my wrists and ankles with old ties or robe sashes. The first time we performed this was in our walk in closet at the time, and I had dressed in an ultra small boys white muscle undershirt (that we had bought specifically for exhibitionism) and a zip up skirt and casual open toed slip on heels... an outfit I had worn many times before outdoors, before kids. While my wrists were tied to the hanger bars of the closet, using a combination of his saliva and a water spray bottle, he made the tight shirt even more transparent before he took Polaroids of me and then Ripped the shirt off the front of me as he continued to suck on my tits and nipples. He unzipped my skirt and let it fall to the floor and then quietly walked away for what seemed like forever, but was really only about 5 minutes. The next thing I heard was another pic being taken of me.. and then he positioned himself between my legs to eat me out until I came. The whole anticipation of it made me cum harder and quicker. More of blindfolds and being tied up later under Exhibitionism.
Number 2 - We don't practice golden showers often, but there have been a few. The first time was in the (very clean) unfinished basement of a relatively new townhouse that we were renting, as I was posing for him in a green crocheted bikini. I was so turned on that I didn't want the session to end. We were down there for at least 2 hours. I strutted around in heels as he was nude and slowly jerking off and encouraging me to pose with different objects and bounce my tits as they were dying to get out of the top. He then suggested I get in the laundry tub and run the water to get the bikini wet... but before I did, I surprised him. Legs spread, I stood over the floor drain the middle of the room and started peeing. There was a gusset to the bikini bottoms that blocked the stream somewhat, so I pulled aside the crotch and let it flow... he rushed over and in a sitting position got between my legs to let my urine hit him in the chin, chest and erect cock. Now that vision was a Rush! There was quite a bit of urine and I didn't want to run upstairs to use the the toilet in a proper manner as I thought it would ruin the sessions attitude and feeling. I then got into the laundry tub and plugged the drain with the stopper and ran the water. Without taking off the bikini I washed down with the shampoo I had there. He came over and from inside the tub I washed him down with the bubbles and then splashed water on him to rinse. Yes, the floor was wet, but it was basement and easily cleaned up. The other few times was in the tub as we showered together and once outdoors in a wooded area behind our house. With the privacy we had around us, I walked back to the house bottomless in my sandals with my button up top open and the smell of urine between us in the open air.
Number 1 - I need to take a break now, but I will continue this and a few other things we like to do in a separate Comment... Besides, this may be quite long as I look back on it... wouldn't want to bore anyone... lol

Ashley - posted on 08/19/2014




I love watouching him lower his ass on a nice 7" long 2" thick dildo seeing his ass stretch around the thick head & him going down till its all in but the balls & up then down. I really love fucking him watching my big strap on cock disappears & his ass stretching around it as I thrust it in & out listening him beg to b fuckrd& wanting to plz me & will do anything.

Rosie - posted on 05/16/2010




i don't really have any. i like to watch porn while doing it, but it's not something i have to have or even think about on a regular basis or anything.

my husband loves feet. he'll grab my foot and start sucking away while we're doing it. i think it's gross, but well, whatever floats his boat!!

Carolee - posted on 05/14/2010




Well, I used to be a dominatrix, and I am a voyeur. I also used to be an exhibitionist and nudist.


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Tony - posted on 11/25/2016




I've always had a thing about spanking. Very strange. Don't know where it came from. It worked out in my marriage that my wife uses the paddle although I would have used it on her if she wanted, but she doesn't.

Ashley - posted on 05/14/2010




I like being choked (not so extreme to where I pass out) and tied up. I have used a blindfold as well and that was fun. :) That's pretty much it. At first my hubby was scared to do it, but after seeing how much I like it, he doesn't mind it now, haha!

Sunny - posted on 05/14/2010




Hmmm well Jesse and i both have had our tongues pierced for about 5 years and it would be very strange being with someone with out one now....
Thats about it for me although i do love the 'V' bit on a guy :)

Emma - posted on 05/14/2010




Well i never considered it a fetish but apparently it is i have always had a thing for shaved heads,
i love touching my hubby's shaved head.
And my hubby loves feet

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