Daddy dont want nothing to with her

Amanda - posted on 02/07/2010 ( 1 mom has responded )




I started datin my daughters father back in march got pregnant in april. He cheated on me before I found out I was pregnant and after I found out! When I told him I was pregnant he walked out and went and lived with another girl! I called him after I had her and everyday since then! I had her on Jan 9 he has not seen her tryed to see her nothing! I have told him he can see her when ever he wants to I am not going to keep his daughter away from him! I do still love him but I dont think I could ever see him again! I want him to be a part of her life but I dont want to make him! The whole time I was pregnant he was sying she is not his and just a week or two ago he started claming her! I was so hurt by him I cant move on with my life and start me my own family! I have a beatiful baby girl that has a father that wants nothing to do with her! And I want everything for her! I want her to have a dad I want her to have brothers and sisters and I want her to have a family! What should I do?


Beverley - posted on 02/07/2010




Oh Hon! You got a beautiful new baby to concentrate all your love on! U have told the dad the doors open, and thats all you acn do. Its up to him now. He must pay you child support thogh, so make sure you get that if nothing else! Go to citizens advice for help. Don't ring him everyday, that will freak him out and make him think you're crazy and harrassing him.

Concentrate on recovering from the birth, and making a life for you and your daughter. You don't need a bloke you can't trust around you. Its very early days yet, and you don't need to waste your time on a looser! Enjoy spending your time with your baby, and relish every wonderful moment of motherhood! xxx

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