Dads Gf hitting my son

Summer - posted on 07/21/2011 ( 9 moms have responded )




How do i deal with this without going loco on my son father girl friend, she beat him for peeing on her couch when he is potty training, and then his dad brought him home early a sunday telling me he and his woman now had a big agrument and my son told me she slap him wat the hell am i to do, i inform the court but since he was not there, they suspend his access till the next court date


Christina - posted on 07/21/2011




All you can do is what you are doing, going to court to get a restraining order against his GF for your son. It does sound like his dad is trying to do the right thing (in the sense that he brought your son home instead of letting it continue more than it had). Hopefully he realizes that she is no good and gets rid of her. :(

Rosa - posted on 08/02/2011




You better go loco, who the hell does she think she is. She is to never lay a hand on your baby, I had a boyfriend who attempted to do the same, hit my baby. N I told his straight in his face, u better stop. Do whatever it takes to protect your son, he should be out there protecting your son as priority no1 and not his gf. He needs a head check, clearly that GF does not have your sons intrest.

Julia - posted on 07/31/2011




If your ex continues to see this women after her behaviour then you can clearly see where his priorities are and they're not in your child's best interest - she's done it once and hes let her get away with it then she will do it again. Stop contact! The fact that she hurt someone else's child for something that the child couldn't have helped shows she's either stupid or just genuinely bad with children.
Personally if my ex's gf touched my son, I'd slit her throat and put him in the hospital foe allowing it to happen lol

Kelly - posted on 07/31/2011




i believe she should be able to do some form of punishment, like time out or take away a favorite toy for a short time (depending on age). but there is no reason she should be hitting your son at all. i have a bf who has kids and i have kids. he would never hit my kids and i would never hit his (although i do have to admit there have been times i really wanted to). it is hard to control what happens at someone else's home but i would push it in court


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Edith - posted on 08/02/2011




I wouldn't allow my son to go back to this girl's home period! Too many children have lost their lives at the hands of an abusive partner. I commend his dad for bringing him home but sounds like dad needs to remove himself as well so he should understand why you don't want your son around this woman. She has no right to hit him and if I were you I would've filed charges on her because classy women don't fight with their hands, they fight with their heads!

Quita - posted on 07/21/2011




You did way better than i would have done. I would have wanted to know why daddy left my kid alone with someone else. But you did the right thing by going to the court cause I would have been in jail behind my kid. I ADMIRE YOUR CALMNESS.

Jane - posted on 07/21/2011




You've already done what you can do. You've told the court, your ex knows what his GF does and has confronted her, and he has removed your son from the risk. Next, you can pray that he realizes she is not good and leaves her.

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