ex husband racing: can i refuse 3 year old going to his races

Ashleeklohnes - posted on 08/16/2017 ( 1 mom has responded )




my ex and i just recently broke up and he has been spending his weekends at "the races" (he races snowmobiles and fourwheelers ) do i have the right to refuse my son to go for his visitation on the weekends i know he will be racing?
he has no one to watch our 3 year old while he races other then his young single male friends who know nothing about children.. who we have also BOTH agreed we would NEVER allow them to watch our child while we had been together. But because we have broken up he wants to take him?
im also 5 months pregnant and his intention is to take our newborn/baby with him too!!!
what can i do?


April JoAnn - posted on 08/18/2017




It is really great that you ae concerned for your children’s well being. Your child’s safety is your biggest concern and that will be the guide for your decision making. Have you thought about maybe sitting down with a mediator to talk over your concerns, someone outside the situation or in connection? This could help clear up concerns and or set boundaries. Keep up the great work it is never easy but children are so worth the effort.

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