Single and wondering

Kristin - posted on 02/06/2009 ( 5 moms have responded )

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Hello everyone,My name is Kristin new to this but what I have been on I am loven it.I have 2 teens and 14 yr old son and a 12 going on 13 yr old daughter.It's hard but I do have been for years even when I was with their dad,we was together for 18 yr and I left him 2 yrs ago for the best,but now I feel like I am going to be singe forever,that noone wants to be with someone who already has a family and then the big thing is I have my tubes tied and what if I want to meet someone who wants children and I can't have one for them.then I feel like I am thinking into things to much and need to chill out and the right man will come along when it is the right time.

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Rebecca - posted on 02/06/2009

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I agree with Tammy, you have to meet the right guy for you and your child(ren).  My biggest problem is trying to find the right place to meet the decent guy.  I say keep looking, because if you want that relationship it's really hard to not think about it.

Kristin - posted on 02/06/2009

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Quoting Jodi:



they say if you stop thinking about it and looking then love will float your way. I dont believe in that, doing it that way means you could be waiting years to meet somone, you have to put yourself out, and meet people. i find these days men are better about kids. its just an expected thing these days, alot of women have a children then find their life partners after, you will be very suprised, men are relly quite good with the subject. i wouldnt think about the tube tieing thing untill it needs to be though about. one thing at a time i always say.





Thank younice to meet you My name is Kristin

Kristin - posted on 02/06/2009

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Quoting Tammy:



I have 5 children and have met many wonderful guys who do not mind children at all. If you are in your 30's more than liklely you have kids.  Don't let anyone tell you men don't want someone with kids.  My problem is not finding the right guy for me, it's finding the right guy for us.  trusting again is hard and i don't ever let the guy meet my kids until it is serious (usually 6 mos or more). 





I don't someone just for me if I do find someone or they find me they also have to make my kids happy,my kids have never been around anyone but their father,I never  have men in my home cuz I have a daughter and I am very not sure of anyone these days.

Jodi - posted on 02/06/2009

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they say if you stop thinking about it and looking then love will float your way. I dont believe in that, doing it that way means you could be waiting years to meet somone, you have to put yourself out, and meet people. i find these days men are better about kids. its just an expected thing these days, alot of women have a children then find their life partners after, you will be very suprised, men are relly quite good with the subject. i wouldnt think about the tube tieing thing untill it needs to be though about. one thing at a time i always say.

Tammy - posted on 02/06/2009

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I have 5 children and have met many wonderful guys who do not mind children at all. If you are in your 30's more than liklely you have kids.  Don't let anyone tell you men don't want someone with kids.  My problem is not finding the right guy for me, it's finding the right guy for us.  trusting again is hard and i don't ever let the guy meet my kids until it is serious (usually 6 mos or more). 

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