why do exs and there NEW partners ALWAYS find fault and NEVER accept its not about THEM but the KIDS????ARRRRGH

Geri - posted on 04/03/2009 ( 1 mom has responded )




After a difficult few year i have moved on soo much my children live between both me n there dad n he has always been ok but since he has met this new lady he is constantly finding fault and we are up n down to court all the time,we have been seperated 6yrs now n before She came along we got on ok


Linda - posted on 04/03/2009




Hi Geri,

I totally get where you are coming from, I myself am ten yrs down the track of leaving my ex partner and after nearly nine yrs of him being re-partnered, and the kids living fifty - fifty, all i can say is try not to let it get you down, you cant really control what they are gonna find fault with even the non existent ones, but you can control the fact of not letting it get you down, and i do realise just how hard that is.  Wishing you all the best for the future, and i hope this helps just a little. 


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