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Rhian - posted on 04/23/2009

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being a mother is far from easy, demanding little tinkers 24 hours a day. I was always told by the babys dad i should stop winging about being so tired he could look after the baby standing on his hands (they not got a clue) being a ful- time mother is the hardest job in the world. my son is a pleasure to have never had a problem with him, but being lonley, constantly tired and baby demanding attention 24-7 does take it out of u.

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Michelle - posted on 04/22/2009

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Being a mom is hard yes but it has it rewards.. I am a single mom and have been since day one and i find it just fine doing it on my own i actually love it hard yes but love ever second of it...The father denies him and i never want my son to feel unwanted or second..I make all the decsions and Noah myson doesn't live in a house with fighting. It is perfect like must of my friends say the fathers are only there they don't usually help all the time...I have alot of support and that's all i need...

Nochelle - posted on 04/22/2009

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Being a mum (and yes single at that) is the hardest job in the world! But i bet its all worth it. I have been emotionally crashed lots of times for being alone but the rewards are really great. After i have been in that babyhood stage where i deal with poops, crying, traumas and fevers looking back all i had a smile in my face. When other mums start asking how to deal with it, i feel brave and proud that i have gone through all of it. So cheeer up!

Neera - posted on 04/21/2009

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Being a mom is the hardest job ANYONE will ever have! It's long hours for no pay, at times thankless and ALWAYS exhausting! It can be overwhelming and at times you want to just stay in bed all day long and not talk to anyone.

But it's still the BEST thing any woman can do! There is nothing that can compare with the excited smile of your baby when you walk in the room, even if you have only been gone for 5 minutes:) Baby hugs and snuggles are better than any fickle man.

To make things easier to be a single mom, I have become a little obsessive compulsive about things. I try to be really organized and keep to a fairly strict schedule. That way my son knows what to expect everyday and I know where everything is almost all the time. I have a cleaning/laundry day and don't even LOOK at laundry on the other days. I try to have some activity that is just MINE (soccer) because to be a good mom, you need to be a happy woman first!

Amanda - posted on 04/21/2009

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in the beginning i found it easy. like the first three months i found easy. i didn't have help from the father until about 4 months and strangely thats when it got harder for me. its really hard now that im a single mom of my 11 month old son and im pregnant but i love being a mom. my kids are the best part of my life.

Carol - posted on 04/20/2009

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Although its not easy being a mum it is very rewarding!!!! As an originally single mum at 18 to a married mum of 5 at 28 i can safely say i've been there done that and im still wearing the t-shirt!!! (covered in baby puke and dinner)!!!! Lots of gals don't do routine but if your routine is strict it is soooo much easier (plus you get time for you)!!!

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