dating and i have children problems

Yvette - posted on 09/21/2011 ( 1 mom has responded )




i just started a relationship with my boyfriend. My son likes my boyfriend. We just started staiing with him and his 4 year old son. My son gets very upset because when he asks the 4 year old to stop bothering him he wont stop. The 4 year old keeps antagonizing him. My son then gets upset and all he wants to do is go home. I need some suggestions on what to do to help my son out and so that he doesn't get to upset. Please help me I don't know how to resolve this problem. Any advise would be helpful. Thank You.


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Make sure your son has a space of his own where he can get away from the 4 year old. And the same for the 4 year old. Everyone needs their own space and time to themselves. Give them both some time to work out their own relationship. (Just be ready to interfere before there is any blood shed :)
That said, that is exactly the sort of behavior you would have if they were siblings. They fight constantly. About anything and everything.
I would say the boys are off to a great start as brothers!

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