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9 weeks pregnant and feeling sooo lonely a left out

Smita - posted on 04/29/2011 ( 7 moms have responded )




Hi, i am 9 weeks pregnant, this is my ist child and i feel sooo lonely all the time. my husband leaves for office at 8 in the morning and comes back late at around 9 in the evening. he doesnt understand that i am lonely. i want to make friends as all my friends are either working or studying and dont have any time to spare. please can some of you be my friend...


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Melanie - posted on 04/30/2011




:) absolutely, find me on FB :), Why aren't you out and about? unless there are major complications, you could work, volunteer, keep going to classes, have a girls night with your friends, check out free events around the community (library usually has different events weekly), etc...being pregnant does not stop your ability to enjoy life, just alters the options a little...don't disregard the fact that your hormones are going totally bonkers right now...they will jack up your perceptions about everything for a long while, even after the baby is born. Find me and I'll accept your friend request. :)

Constance - posted on 04/29/2011




Ohh sweetie!!! I know how you feel and I can be your friend. I have 4 of my own and my husband is living in another state because his company just moved. I have really no one to talk to either. The one person that I could count on is no longer around because of the decisions. New boyfriend who is a theif and drug addict, and now she is using again. So I can't associate with her I won't watch her kill herself. Adult conversation and understanding is worth everything when you are either by yourself or have just kids aound.

Natasha - posted on 04/29/2011




Oh I can be your friend I went through the same thing less that 6 months ago. My boyfriend didn't understand that I was so lonely because my friends were also to busy or sadly didn't want to hangout with me because I was pregnant and all they wanted to do was party. Need someone to talk to or just vent to let me know!

√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 04/29/2011




You should look for mommy groups near you, I just joined one and it's been awesome :) There are lots of mothers and we all feel lonely. Do not let this continue hun! Reach out, join facebook / myspace and look for friends.

Mommy - posted on 04/29/2011




What I would have given to be a stay at home wife! I don't know where you live, but I live in the US and we have something called and you can put in where you live, your interests, and meet groups of people to do things with. For example, if you like to walk, they will find a walking group by you to join. Also, if you have teh finances, take a class in something. Cooking, dance, anything. So many things you can do!

Erica - posted on 04/29/2011




Are you not working durring your pregnancy? You need to go out and find something and make it yours. Take a class, Join a gym... find what you are passionate about and use that to fill some time! If your only 9 weeks pregnant find a short term job you think your lonely and Isolated now, just wait till baby gets here! You need toget yourself out of the house and meeting new people! :)

Nomsa - posted on 04/29/2011




of course dear. i have been in your shoes and worse thing is we are a continent away from home and friends, and the french language is not making it easy to make friends. just try to find something to fill your time, maybe do a cooking course just for fun, or anything you like doing, as long as its not dangerous for your baby`s health. But just log in and have some one to talk too.

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