A day of Sex or a good day to your self????

♏*PHOENIX*♏ - posted on 07/17/2010 ( 3 moms have responded )




Im just wondering how many of you would rather have a day of sex (with breaks in between..LOL) or a day to your self minus the hubby/partner and children/babies???

Me…..I would want a day to myself, I would enjoy a nice long morning bath with candles and rose petals, and a good book, then I would have a quiet breakfast and actually taste my food and take my time (not stuffing it down my throat) I would then take the time to dress myself, head out to the nail salon with my girlfriends, have lunch, come home take a nice LONG nap(going to sleep with some nice soft rock) Then have dinner with friends, head out to and upscale bar/lounge for a few hours….ending the night with more me time and have a good nights rest….ahhhhhhhhh IF ONLY!!!!

What would you pick? And what would you do???


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Kimberly - posted on 07/18/2010




I get the sex often enough for my liking.

The day to myself however, I'd like to spend it with my other half. We'd probably sleep till noon, then have sex, a shower, maybe see a movie and eat something while it's still warm....It's not quite a day to myself, but I'm a boring person and don't really do anything alone or with friends anymore...

Kim - posted on 07/18/2010




See.. I would want both.

That being said- I still get to indulge in sex (however rushed it may be)

I WANT the day to myself. ( I was so desperate for silence the other day I hid in the car in the garage once my husband got home).

I would sleep in as late as I could. Get up, have a nice cup of tea, steeped to perfection! Then the longest hottest shower where I would have time to actually shave! Then maybe lounge around the house NAKED! Then decide on an outfit without fear of it being covered in baby vomit immediately.

Go out to the book store, take my time and find the PERFECT book to read that has nothing to do with babies or marriages.

Finish the night with a dinner with my husband- just us in a restaurant with NO talk of babies/poop/ vomit ect.

Then end the night off with the ENTIRE bed to myself- no baby or husband hogging the blankets or space!....

That was nice to dream about.... maybe in 18 years it will happen?

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