abortion sorry I can't do that

Innocent - posted on 08/16/2016 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Hello I just found out im pregnant as a week back me and my bf would joke around saying we not ready for kids till today when I took a test nd we found out im pregnant so we decided to go see a doctor this Friday to find out how far we are he was relaxed and chilled about it but I could just see that his stressing I have a 4 year old son but not with him he has a 15 year old daughter but she doesn't stay with him so I think his just afraid of a new start or maybe he doesn't want to have a baby with me so later on today he tells me his not ready to have a baby he has to much on his plat and can't have a baby now so I told him I'm also not ready but since I'm pregnant there's nothing I can do because abortion is not a op killing a innocent soul no I can't do that but he still says I rather call or see him as a evil person but his just not ready I don't know what to do because I'm afraid he might leave me nd not support me because he might say I told you I don't want a kid please help what can I do because I can't support this baby on my own as I'm not working 😞

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Michelle - posted on 08/17/2016

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No one knows what he will do and you have to be prepared that he WON'T come back. If you can't afford to raise the child yourself and you won't have an abortion, the only other choice you have is to adopt it out.
Don't sit around waiting for him to come around as it may never happen. You need to get yourself sorted out and don't worry about him.
Next time, please use a couple of form of birth control so you won't be in this position again. YOU are making the choices for your life and you have to live with them.

Innocent - posted on 08/16/2016

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Thank u very much that's helpful the thing is if I do and I will keep this baby I can't afford to be a single parent again raising to kids with different fathers that I can't It's going to be hard but I'm hopping he will come back to his senses soon became I remember with my son my baby dad didn't want anything to do with me or the baby when I was pregnant till I was 5-6 months when I started showing he started taking responsibility so do u think with this one the same might happen? I'm really afraid because he keeps on pushing this abortion thing he doesn't really have 2 say it but his actions say alot it really hurts and I got no1 to support me only me nd him nd cousin knows about this

Michelle - posted on 08/16/2016

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If he does leave you then you go to court and get custody, visitation and child support sorted out.
How can he say he's not ready for a baby when he has a 15yo! That's just stupid. He should have thought about that before having fun.
It's your choice and you shouldn't feel pressured to do something you don't want to do just to keep your relationship. It will never work out if you do. You will have resentment towards him.

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