Am I being unreasonable

Layla - posted on 08/11/2016 ( 1 mom has responded )




Please help somebody I don't now if I'm going mad I have been in a relationship for 2 and 1/2 years to my partner who I have a baby girl with who's now 13 months old I also have 2 boys from a previous partner and my partner has ful custody of his other daughter who I take care of too full time 7 days a week 24 hours a day my partner works self employed and I also so I am getting really down lately because I feel he moans about having to help with the kids or any house work bare in mind I don't stop with all 4 this includes my step daughter also I was hoping with me taking on my step daughter he would at least help me a little he leaves all his crap around expecting me to tidy up his mess I'm up most the night with our teething daughter so I'm so so tired as well I ask him to help me so I can get ready but makes excuses that he's busy wile saying this sitting on his phone it's really getting me down am I going over the top or is this unfair I am never allowed to be on my own without the kids or he's asking why I'm going out he doesn't like my friends hates me going out there's so much more I can say but to much x


Eager - posted on 08/11/2016




Hi, Layla. You’re definitely going through a lonely and frustrating situation –I am so sorry to hear about this and I know it’s not easy to handle circumstances like you described. I realize that you are hurting. Communication is very important in a marriage and so I encourage you to talk to him and let him know how you’re feeling right now. Express your concerns and expectations right – may be it can help you in some way or the other. Also, have you considered counseling? I hope you will feel better soon – sending prayers your way. Hugs!

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