Child sold to home country because adopted mother no longer wanted him!

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Kel - posted on 04/11/2010

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This is HORRIBLE...as an adoptive mother myself, I am outraged. When I went through the process I was prepared to take on ANY child not matter what issues he or she might have had. Adoption is not a way to "special order" your perfect kid. My first foster children (I adopted through the foster care system) were a sibling set. Two little girls age 2 and 4. It was very tough with them at first, they had been through so much. Still, when they were placed with their grandparents and left my home, I felt like my heart had been ripped from my chest. I still think about them often. When our daughter was placed with us she was a three day old infant, additcted to cocaine. She's had a few issues over her seven years of life...and I can't imagine ever even THINKING of letting her go. She's MINE....I usually like to try to see the other side of the story, but I just don't get this at ALL!

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Dawn - posted on 04/11/2010

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well if she really did know about the child's mental state and just threw him away like that then she is one sick ticket

Sheryl - posted on 04/11/2010

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i seen it too. what she did was just wrong. there are other opt. out there. if there something wrong this a child us parent that did give birth to them can't give them back. when you become a parent it for the hard and easy times too. she should have charges filed against her for it. i think that it neglect my self. i would never ever do something like that. those poeple that do that give us others a bad name. i feel for that child.

Dawn - posted on 04/10/2010

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i do not mean to be ignorant it is just impossible to comprehend this? i like to see the good in people

Dawn - posted on 04/10/2010

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it was wroing to just throw him away like that, but she should have been told of his problems before hand so that she could decide on whether she should adopt him before making it official

Dawn - posted on 04/10/2010

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i mean, i understand that a lot of these orphans have some sort of mental health issue because of their situation and their circumstances, but are all orphans mentally ill? i have heard a few good stories about orphans, so i do not think they are all mentally ill so could it be possible that this woman had no idea what she was getting herself into with this boy? could it be that she was never told of his problems?

Dawn - posted on 04/10/2010

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what she did was messed up ,but i was not clear on whether or not she knew he had problems before adopting him

Heather - posted on 04/09/2010

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I think that woman needs to have charges filed against her...legally she is still the boys mother. She has mentally abused that child. and neglected him as well. What was she thinking!?!?

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