did having your child change ur sex life with ur husband? dnt get me wrong i love my baby and wouldnt change her for the world. but still a year after having her my husband and i can go over a week without having sex. do u think they see us different after having children?

Kelli - posted on 12/07/2011 ( 7 moms have responded )




I no this is a mommy website but I believe its a family website as well and id love advice from mothers who may have went thru simular things


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Kenneka - posted on 12/08/2011




wwwhhhhaattt...i wish i were you! i do even care for sex anymore since pregnancy lol

Audrey - posted on 12/08/2011




Ours didnt change at all. He thought watching me give birth(twice) was interesting. lol. we still do it every night. maybe he is in the minority. i know some of my friends' hubbys wouldnt touch them after seeing them give birth cuz they thought it was gross. i think most guys though, maybe are worried about hurting you or maybe its on a deeper subconcious level that he doesnt even realize. im sure he still thinks youre sexy(my friends hubby is an ass so he isnt the picture of a normal guy IMO). i would say just sit down (or lay down) and talk to him about it. come right out and ask him if he sees you differently. tell him how much you still want him.initiate it.

Meta - posted on 12/08/2011




Mine got better which is odd to some people I think because it didn't bother him to watch me give birth,but maybe you should just talk to him and find out. It could be just a stressful time in his life he's a new father and sometimes they go through things we don't understand just talk to him.:) good luck

Bonnie - posted on 12/08/2011




Yes, it has changed a bit, but I think most do. You have so much more going on when you have kids and you get more tired easily as well. Going a week is not that long though IMO.

Christina - posted on 12/08/2011




having a child changed my relationship with my husband in every way from how and when we talk to when an if we have sex its been more work to have mommy and daddy time turn to husband and wife time but it can be done if there is an effort made that doesnt mean that life wont happen an u wont end up with a sick kid in your bed on date nite its not just about the effort but an agreeable life too good luck hun and god bless

Stifler's - posted on 12/08/2011




my sex life went downhill when we moved in together to be honest. i think they do see you differently after sseeing a baby come out of there.

Dawn - posted on 12/07/2011




Change your language, is it sex life or life with your intimate partner to produce a connection. They think you are the most beautiful exotic beings that make their fantasy real. You are the real believe in yourself. The most FEMININE individual has a captive audience and holds them for life..... til ----- do us part! Dawn

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