Did he Cheat??

Heather - posted on 04/09/2011 ( 3 moms have responded )

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What do I do if my man and I get into a fight big time and he throws out the big "I cheated on you" in the middle but then the next day tells you it was not true? He swears that he made it up because he wanted to piss me off but I'm still having issues.... How do I get past this??? He is a good guy and does so much for our family, never has done anything for me to suspect cheating so I want to look past it, BUT its kinda hard now that I'm actually in those shoes!!!!

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Kristin - posted on 04/10/2011

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people say stupid things when they are mad and fighting. boy do i know this from experience!
my man says the stupidest things when we argue and it never amounts to anything.
but i would still be a little uneasy if he threw that at me

Bonnie - posted on 04/10/2011

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I would also find it difficult to believe him. There are so many other things to lie about or to make up during a fight, why would he choose saying that he cheated?

Nikki - posted on 04/10/2011

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Oooh I would find it difficult to believe him too. Does he have the opportunity to cheat? have you ever suspected it before? If he did cheat on you would you rather know, or be kept in the dark?

If I were in your situation I think I would talk to him and explain that I was having trust issues after his outburst. I would want to know the truth regardless of what it was.

I would also go and get a STD check just to be safe.

Hope you work it out :)

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