Do you seem to forget things more after baby than prebaby??

Chesnie - posted on 03/30/2010 ( 5 moms have responded )




My husband will say he told me something and either I forgot what he said or I really dont think he told me. There are times he will say "I told you such and such.." and I know he never did and he will make me feel like I am just forgetful. There are times I do forget though..It has gotten worse since I have had my 10 month old!!


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Shayna - posted on 04/01/2010




Hmm.. I'm not usually forgetful. For sure sleep deprivation and kids keeping you busy all the time can cause your mind to slip. You should get a little agenda and keep yourself organized better for events, chores, bills etc.. that should help you remember better.

Ricki - posted on 03/30/2010




I have never gotten my full memory back. I thought I was forgetful and seemed to have gotten a bit less intelligent while pregnant with my first daughter. Most of my reasoning abilities were fully restored but then I had to go and have another one! My youngest is 15 months, my oldest is 5, and I am more forgetful and dumber than ever!! If I don't write it down when I think about it, or say it the instant it pops into my head, I will never recall it! So pregnancy brain becomes mommy brain. I'm scared to death to have a third one (would only happen accidental after the second, considering how mean and hard she is!) because then I won't know anything!! I'll have to make my family wear name tags!

Tracy - posted on 03/30/2010




Yes, it can take, if I remember right, about 1yr or more for your hormones to get back to normal, if they ever really do!

Delores - posted on 03/30/2010




I still forget things and my son is 2. My brain gets cluttered with what is for snack, dinner, laundry, cleaning, etc. We just have a lot to think about. My husband does the same thing. I just try to write everything down and if I forget to do it, I will do it the next day. Don't be so hard on yourself.

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