family of 4 with another on the way in need of advice

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hello my family and I are live in an area that is mostly small towns and farms my husband and I have both only lived in this area. our parents both live here as well as a lot more of my family. in this area jobs are few and far between there is not much work here and if you do find work it does not usually last for more then a couple months which is very hard when you have a growing family. my hubby and I have went back and forth on the idea of moving an hour and a half away to the city where my older sister lives we have looked a lot into it and there is soo much more to offer there and not really anything here for us, due to jobs that are not steady and reliable we have moved around a lot in this area and really just want to find a way to end that and get on track to buying a house one day for our kids to grow up in we love the county and this area but I don't think we will ever get ahead staying here the problem is that my oldest (my daughter) is very close with my family here and knowing my family they will have a whole bunch to say if we were to tell them we are moving away tbh for me moving to the city makes me nervous but we have been stuck in this constant circle of struggling due to not enough work that I really don't see any other options for my family as I am currently 8 months pregnant and things seem to be getting hard and harder here, we just cant catch a break so please any advice would be very helpful

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